Okay well I'm sixteen years old and I've never been kissed. I really don't know why. I've had three boyfriends since freshman year, and none of them had kissed me. Two of them were for over a month. I saw them like every day, but we still didn't kiss. Am I doing something wrong?

Nope, you are being smart. You are 16, don't throw away that special experience. Kiss the one that truly has your heart. And honey, a month isn't a very long relationship. Maybe in high school! When you are ready, you will know.

I didn't have my first kiss or lose my virginity until I finished high school, got acceptance letter from universities, and graduated with the senior class.


It may seem crap right now, but you need to tell yourself that you will find a good guy.

Darlin', a kiss ain't everything. I'm 18 years old and never had a real guy. Working on that, but still. Don't let that invade your life worrying about it because if you do, it will ruin your life.

A kiss should be something special, don't rush it.

Girl there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I didn't get my first kiss until about a month ago and I'm 24. I was really bummed about it at your age, but now I am SOOOOO glad that my first kiss came from this guy. If I had kissed some of the other guys, it wouldn't have been as special as it was, and still is!

It's not a "when" thing, it's a "now is the time" thing. You've had a few start boyfriends, but they weren't "it" and you're still working toward the time.

You're doing fine.

I'm the same age, and I'm going to be a junior as well, but I've never had a boyfriend. And I get really shy around guys that are hot or guys that I like. I wish I was more outgoing with guys.

Many guys and girls lose their kiss and virginity to the wrong people. Ever watched "The Life of An American Teenager"? Yep, that's the portrait of how teenagers are nowadays... stupid, ruthless, reckless, dumb etc. with their sexual education.

Yet, they think they can handle the consequences but they can't.

Be happy and thankful you're not one of those million teenagers who are screw ups.