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  • Aug 3, 2008, 11:06 PM
    edd4Alex
    Sex and Cell phones
    My spouse just woke me up this morning from my deep sleep. He started making love to me,then his phone rang. He first ignored it but after a while he ANSWERED HIS CALL. While he was making love to me. I stopped him because I was deeply hurting. My question is,is it right for a man to answer his phone while he is having sex with the fiancée?
  • Aug 3, 2008, 11:13 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    NO!!

    It's horrible!

    What could have possibly been so important that he had to answer his phone while making love to the woman he's to marry?

    Freaking kidding me?
  • Aug 3, 2008, 11:19 PM
    manhattanchick
    That happened to me once too! Even though he was not my fianc'e , I got really mad. I felt un important. You should seriously talk to him about it if it happens again. Don't get in a big fight though because remember, he's you're future husband!
  • Aug 3, 2008, 11:28 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    I'm sorry no, talk to him NOW. Don't wait until it happens again.
  • Aug 3, 2008, 11:42 PM
    manhattanchick
    Yeah. You know, I think you're right. You should talk to him now. It is pretty serious. Sorry for the bad advice the first time. :(
  • Aug 3, 2008, 11:44 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    It's all good. A few reddies are good for you! Build character! I have at least twenty! But that's what we are here for! Good advice, bad advice... we are trying to help!
  • Aug 4, 2008, 05:14 AM
    liz28
    I would have been mad as hell. You should have discuss it with him right away but there no better time than now.
  • Aug 4, 2008, 06:27 AM
    Romefalls19
    Talk about it NOW!!
  • Aug 4, 2008, 06:32 AM
    Tuscany
    Talk to him. If you don't your feelings will only grow stronger and might lead to resentment.
  • Aug 4, 2008, 06:52 AM
    excon
    Hello:

    Some men are too quick on the trigger. Often times, we advise them to think of something else when they're about to come toooo soon. A telephone call would certainly do that. Maybe he had his friend call so he could delay his pleasure so he could pleasure you first - or NOT.

    excon

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