Hi, all, I hv been lurk here for a long time(like lots of others before posting something),and I like to read the post here, but I didn't think I want to post anything here, I didn't hv those problems, I hd an ideal relationship, but out of the blue, my sky fell, my boyfriend told me he want to go back to his ex, I cried last night, couldn't sleep, didn't step out of my home the whole day today, didn't want to eat, all I did was reading his emails, and cry, yeah, someone said, it will over sooner or later, but I just don't know how to bail out this situation, will you tell me what to do, can lessen this pain,thanks for your time.

I'm so sorry you are in so much pain. Try to do something nice for yourself. Call some friends. Have some fun.

Best wishes

Thanks,maybe tomorrow will be better, anyway it's the very next day,and, tomorrow is Monday,working may distract me a little.

Life is to short to love someone that doesn't love you pick your head up get dressed and enjoy being single the right one will come when your not looking... been there baby you'll be OK

I know, I know, it will over, maybe I'm silly, I just think I want only him in this world, I thought I found the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, but its all out of window, he spoke as usual to tell me this, but I was fozen with grief inside. Thanks for the encourage.

Read the 4 stickies for this forum, and The No Contact Calender I & II, for some really good suggestions, on how to move on with your life, after a break up. There is a link in my signature.

I'm looking at his photoes, reading his emails, and hv this illusion ---he is still mine, yes, I'm silly.