I've been dating/known this guy for about 4 yrs now.
But only segments of the year are actually devoted to each other
For short periods.
We both feel we have a amazing connection.
And feel we both mean something very special to each other.
But we live about a hr apart from each other.
We're booth trying to find out paths in life.
Im 20 and he's 22.
I don't know what to feel about it.
We discussed dating and both agreed that we didn't want a relationship.
We are both honest to each other and when we talk we share most secrets we dare not discuss with others.
Along with the best sexual intimacy I've ever experienced even beats sex in the last long term relationship I was in.

Whenever I break up with anyone I always think of him.
He's always in the back of my mind some where.

What do you think?
I mean I'm fine with how things are.
It's a thrill every time we see each other.
We're always glowing when we're together.
But should I stop talking to him... is this a waste.
Will anything become of this situation?
Or will he always be that guy who I've always wondered about?

I'm going to possibly see him on the 10th of August.
Should I say something.
I mean I'm not afraid to.
But sometimes the mystery of what will happen is just to tempting to destroy.
He's a man who I adore but only have to see when I need him most and like wise as well.
Do you think he feels the same way too?


PLEASE GIVE ME UR INPUT.

If this has been going on for as long as you say it has, he probably doesn't want much more than an on-again/off-again situation, but of course you'll never know until you ask. If you're as close as you say then asking what he wants from the relationship won't be too big of a jump. He may even be waiting for you to give him the go ahead!

Be open, honest, and follow your heart.

Thanks so much for you're advice I really appreciate your kind gesture. It means a lot, it truthfully does.

LYM

I think you should go for it, you obviously have like, the BEST
Connection ever! If you're always thinking of him when you break
Up with someone, doesn't that mean anything? You can't really
Get him out of you mind!

BUT, I do question this ONE thing:

"We discussed dating and both agreed that we didn't want a
relationship. We are both honest to each other and when we
talk we share most secrets we dare not discuss with others."

Now, I just may be clueless BUT, when I think of dating, and of
Dating someone, it usually means I would LIKE to get into a
Relationship with them.

I understand you guys live a tad bit far from each other, and an hour
Drive is a lot, but I think both of your connections with each other
Balances that out. I had a friend whose boyfriend moved to the
Philippines, and that's some 3000+ miles I think. Now she really
Loved this guy, and they tried their best to stay together despite
The seriously long distance between them, but they always had
Doubts in the back of their mind.

I would really consider getting into a serious relationship with this guy
Because:
1. You guys posses a GREAT connection, which can be hard to find!
2. You both obviously have a deep relationship, because you guys tell
Intimate secrets and such. (I don't exactly share the same secrets with
My friends that I share with my girlfriend.)
3. This guy just may be the guy of your dreams!

I think you should go with your heart, and whatever happens...

The best of Luck!
-Danny (MaGiC_DaN90)