Wife's business conflict with boss's non-compete
I have been employed as operations manager for a NC service company for 9 years. I operate and oversee the revenue for 3 of the company 4 branch offices. The owner and another manager operate and oversee the one branch office, which is also the corporate office. Logistically, the offices that I operate are between 60 and 120 miles from our corporate office in Raleigh.
The company was originally (when I started working there) owned by the Father of the family, and ran by 2 brothers. In July of 2005, the father and one son, fired the other son. A family dispute ensued. The father and majority owner of the corporation passed away in May of 2006, leaving controlling interest in the corporation to his Widow and 24 1/2 % to the remaining son in the business. His mother subsequently gave controlling interest to her son that remained in the business.
Before last April (2007), the company had provided 5 different services to commercial customers. In April, the owner dropped one of the services that the company was providing (just stopped doing it).
In May, 2007, he gave another entity of the business, the "Cleaning" business, away to the brother that was fired 2 years prior. This brother had started a "Cleaning" business of his own when he was dismissed from the company. His business philosophy was not to travel to far from the big cities for his work. In keeping with this philosophy, he has not serviced about 1/3 of the business that is in outlying areas, and just let it go to the wayside.
Fast forward to 3 weeks ago...
My wife started a cleaning company and has done very well getting accounts. Most of the accounts that she has gotten (99% of them) were NOT the accounts of the company at all.
When the owner of the company that I work for found out (I told him), he said that he has a non-compete with his brother and either my wife dissolve the business she started, or I can not work there. At one point, he offered that I could stay, but my wife would have to dissolve the business and I would have to sign a new non compete that would include family members and acquaintances...
Can he hold me to his non compete that I knew nothing about because my wife started a business?? Should I lose my job if she doesn't dissolve??
By the way, I have had no part in my wife's business. She started it, set it up and hired competent people to do the work (people who do not work for the company that I work for). I do have a non compete with my company but only for the services that the company "ordinarily provides". Which as of last May, no longer consist of Cleaning.
Thanks in advance for any help or suggestions