This may sound stupid but anyway...

In school I'm lucky to have three best friends, I know that, and I have many other people that I call friends and they call me a friend. The problem is, apart from my best friends, I just see right through people and that makes it hard for me to communicate with them.

For example, there's a boy and yes he's my/our friend and he's a nice person but I hate the way he thinks he can say things that hurt peoples feelings and when they confront him, he laughs and really doesn't give much of a response. I just get frustrated at people who don't stand up and apologise for something they know they've done.

Another example, there's another boy who just goes round sweet talking girls to get their lunches! Even though none of them really fancy him, they all give it to him anyway mostly to shut him up. And he knows he'll get his way.

And a lot of girls who would do anything for any guys attention even if they don't even like the guy. Leading guys on is just so wrong.

And then there's this girl who is like that except she'd do anything for anyone attention. I mean, once her boyfriend broke up with her, I almost seen a sign of emotion in her but then she went off on a blaablaa about hot celebraties.

I just understand people like that and don't get me wrong, I don't slabber about any of these people to anyone else. Its just so annoying. I know I'm obviously too judgemental and I know I'm nowhere near perfect myself. I'm not that negetive generally as a person but all my best friends think I am because I complain too much. They don't see people in the light I see some people in and I don't want to annoy them by complaining too much.
How do I talk and get to know people without like.. analyzing them? Ugh, it annoys me so much!

Actually it is to your benefit to see what people are really up to but over analyzing can be a problem.
Try to work on your analyzing more basically like first impression and why you get that impression and then just accept them for them.

Basically they all seem to fit three basic categories the bully, the gullible and the level headed... be glad you are level headed category.

I have no idea I have the same problem

generally with the female population

I call every girl a slut maybe its cause I've had a lot of bad experiences with girls such as my ex best friend had sex with my boyfriend while we were dateing and all the other ones just talk a lot crap about me for no apparent reason.

I tend to be judgemental a lot such as I don't like to go to clubs and party a lot and me and my best friend drifted away because of that. Because she likes that stuff and I don't

also cause she likes to drink and smoke and occasionally pop pills..
I don't get it why people are so dumb sometimes.

if someone's mean to another person I'm always the one to stand up for them, usually the only one witch can make me feel like an outcast but then it makes me feel good cause I know that I'm not a follower I am my own person and if someone doesn't like it then they don't have to associate with me

for instance the other day about a week ago I was with some friends and we were playing a game... they weren't frioends I was super close with they were mainly my guy friends and 2 girls I had no idea who they were.. some one cracked a joke about black people.. I'm clearly white but I got sooo angry and flipped out on everyone cause everyone was laughing and going along with the joke.. when I said listen don't be saying the "N" word it's a disrespectful word and I don't like it cause in not racist and they werte like what are u black and I said no.. But its just wrong.
when someone litters I'm the one to walk behind them pick it up and throw it away just because I hate how people are so in considerate this is the world u live in why are u going to mess it up.

I'm a very opinionated person and I think differently then a lot of my friends do.. witch makes it hard for me to get along with anyone sometimes and others its what makes people fall in love with me

I guess referring to what u said about bullys my ex is something like that
he teases people, and goes out of his way to make someone's life hell. Literally. Trust me he did it to me. I lost all my friend cause of him and at one point wouldn't show my face at school for two weeks cause he had started soooo much problems with me that my whole school hated me for no reasoon just ebcuase they believe the lies he told.

he's the kind of person the everyone loves but they hate as well, he's a funny kid and he can win u over that way but everyone knows he's not one to be trusted that's how my ex bestfriends is..
she always has to be right and no one every argues back with her they just let her win everything.. she started not to like me cause I argued back with her cause I highly dislike people who think there better then everyone else think there always right and don't listen to what other people have to say.

now don't get me wrong I'm a very bull headed person sometimes too... I mean everyone can be.

like the saying goes no ones perfect

I try and souround myself with positive people.
that's why I'm still with the guy I'm with now, cause he may have screwed up biggg time by having sex with my ex best friend.. but.. he lived up to it and does everything he can to show me he loves me..

at this age I believe all guys, and girls are immature.. until u get past about id say.. 21ish is when people truly start to mature to there fullest extent..

no matter where u go there will always be negative people.

who don't know how to live up to there mistakes
who tease people based on there own insecurities
and who do things that's just not right, period.

I've narrowed it down to this..

it all revolves around a respect issue..

obv. People like that don't respect themselves. To put themselves out like that..

so what make u think there going to respect you?

they won't.


one day something will wake up all these people and make them think twice about what they say and do.

but until then all u can do is just ignor it stand up for yourself and look past them because there just showing that there not worth your time or friendship

another thing I can't stand more then anything is..

in my city there's a lot of rich people.. I myself aren't one of them never have never will be and I like I that way..

I see the way these kids treat there parents like there a money tree and it anoyes me I hate how people just have no respect for the value of a dollar..
they go spend spend spend when they didn't earn it at all I just don't get how they don't have a guilt conciounce about it

I could never ask my paretns for money like that even if they had it just caus e I know they work hard for it and why should they be giving it all to me..
how did I deserve it? How did I earn it?

every time I ask for something I do something in return for it.

I just ahte the fact that people take advantage of others.

Wooops sorry for the long post.. I guess its been a long day I a lot to say


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Thanks, your replies where awesome.

N0help4u :
I always get told I'm down to earth and I'm kind of proud of that because so many people arnt but it's just annoying when I'm talking to people that arnt very nice and all I'm thinking about is how nasty they are and have been and I just want to abort the conversation. It's weird.

Loveishard:
Yes, your post was very =], but I read every bit of it and I totally agree with you. You say you call most girls sluts, I can be like that too but it is actually unbelievable that girls of 14 are as slutty the way they are. Its more scary than anything else.
I know a girl who used to be so nice and then she died her hair poroxide blonde, wears clothes to show older men things they shouldn't see and became the biggest attention seeker. I actually don't know how people could do that to themselves...
I said to her one time (as a joke), you would do anyone for 50p (I was clearly joking not being nasty) and she smiled and said I know.. And I was like WHAT? You took that as a compliment!!
Oh well, what can you do?

Thanks for the posts anyway! X

Yea you just got to let them learn the hard way that's how my old best friend is
She loves attention from guys if she goes out and parties she has to hook up with someone.. and not just one guy multiple and more then kissing she brags to every guy she meets that she's amazing at giving oral

I'm like wow are you doing to yourself
I've heard girls say

" omg i better get a hook up tonight, idc who it is"

Or

" yea i call him when i want to have sex, hes like my booty call"

Like wow have some respect for yourself

Yeah, I'm not at the age where people are like that but I'l be the ones slapping my best mates if they're ever like that. Im like a mum which is weird but hey. =]