I have unprotected sex on 14th July but my boyfriend told me, he was on pills so I don't have to worry to conceive.. my last menstrual cycle was 11th July.. so is there any pills man can get... I never heard before... And now my breast are sore and very big am I pregnant ? Actually I want to get pregnant.. am so confused can anyone help me please

I'm sorry?. your boyfriend was on pills?!

... did they recently develop a new birth control pill for males and I just wasn't aware of it? They're developing one... but I don't think it's out in the market.

1. You seem a bit young... I think your boyfriend may have lied to you. Did he tell you that he was on the pill before you two had sex? Because... that may have been in order to have unprotected sex with you. And if he lied to have unprotected sex with you... that's... a pretty big nono.

2. any reason why you want to get pregnant?

Your not late, you need to wait. And test the day after you period is expected.

I have never heard of a BC pill for men. What pill is he talkng about?

How old are you? How long have you been together?

And if he is lying to you... darn get rid of him.

Just did a little bit of the research... I was right.

The male BC pill is still in its developing stage... and probably won't hit the market for at least the next 5 years... and that's IF it even passes the animal trials, clinical trials, etc.

... sorry sailo. Got to play the waiting game.

Ps - I may seem harsh, but... something tells me you should wait to have children.

I agree, she should wait..

And if she does anyway... which its her life.. Just please not with a liar, who tricked her. Find a Happy and healthy relationship.

P.S. Get checked for STD's and such.. if he tricked you.. then Im sure there are others. And no telling what gets spread around.

What exactly is going on here? I have read your other posts. First you have a husband , and you say you can't get pregnant. Then it's a boyfriend, that is 7 yrs younger than you. Then you have an extra boyfriend? You have said that at least one of your boyfriends has been abusive, and threatened to kill you and that you wanted to kill yourself. You have also mentioned that you basically starve yourself. You seem to have an obsession with getting pregnant.

Now you sleep with a guy that tells you some story of being on pills. I'm not sure what these pills he speaks of are?. but you can be assured that they have nothing to do with birth control. Maybe there is a new pill out called the "liar pill".

As far as I'm concerned, and of course this is only my opinion, I don't think you should be bringing another child into this world at this point. You don't seem to know the basic things about sex and pregnancy! Not to mention STD's!

If you are so eager to have a child, you must first learn the in's and out's of conception (no pun intended) at the very least. I have a feeling you are wanting to have a baby to fill some kind of void in you life, and that you really don't know everything that is involved in raising and caring for a baby. Do you even know how much it costs to raise a child? Do you have a good paying job? Who will take care of your baby, while you are out trying to make money to feed it? What will happen when it screams all night long, and your boyfriend gets tired of it and leaves?

There are so many other things I could say to you... but the main thing I would like to say is,. learn more about what you are wanting to bring into this world as an innocent bystander!

Oh thanks for your reply.. yes I have a husband already but divorce him last year and after that I have another guy in my life.. its for me life is too hard.. dont blame me so much
Yeah we sletp together so I ask him about conceiving a child and he told me ' I eat some pills which weakend mans sperm so don't worry you will not pregnant' But I'm not sure about that things.. if there any pills man can get like that.. heheh

Yes I have a good job and I think I can take care of my child with the help of God.. so you guys said that there is no pills like that.. thanks
Thanks for your kind words and advise too.. God bless you

I would ask your boyfriend to tell you what these pills are, and where he got them. Ask him to show you the bottle, and write down the name.

There really aren't any birth control "pills" for men yet, PERIOD! He was lying to you, and I would be very careful about what else he could possibly be lying about. You don't want to get pregnant and find out he has an STD that he has passed on to you and in turn, your innocent baby.

God can guide you, but he does not pay medical bills or buy diapers! People have to plan and do for themselves. I don't think you will experience any devine intervention. It is fine to pray to God for some guidance, but you have to know that God only takes care of those that take care of themselves.