So my roommate has a problem about 2 or 3 guys lately have decided to ignore her. Things go great with the guys and they seem to be moving in the right direction (one guy even told me that he thought he might be falling in love with her) and then out of the blue they start ignoring her. What could be some reasons that a guy would ignore a girl over??

Bad luck? Maybe they met another girl

They got all they wanted? Did she sleep with any of them? Some people are just looking for that unfortunately...

She's got something abnormal about her that came up at some point?

These are just stabs in the dark, I'm not the type of guy to ignore people unless they piss me off in some way

"Hit it and Quit it"

She having sex with them early on?

That's the thing she hasn't had sex with any of them! Could that be the problem that they want sex and she won't put out?

Maybe.. What type of guys is she dating?

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Maybe.. What type of guys is she dating?

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Also, how old is she and the guys she is dating? How long do they last before they start ignoring her?

Maybe they decide they don't like her personality, maybe they don't like the fact that she won't have sex right away (that may be what they are looking for), they could have just learned something about her that they don't like.

Is she a little too eager to get into a relationship, have babies, or get married? Maybe SHE was moving too quickly (emotionally). That tends to scare guys.

From my experience, if she's clingy then that's it... does she call or text too often? It could simply be that's he goes for the "bad boy" type and you know how it goes with those types...

She isn't really clingy in fact she's been burned a few to many times so she steps back and lets them text and call her and things like that. She was actaully with one guy for a while then he heard not so true information and wouldn't talk to her found out it wasn't true started talking to her again then all of a sudden ignored her again. Its just really weird she doesn't change how she acts and they were both around for awhile but then just stopped.

Maybe if she lets him take all the intiative he feels like she isn't in it, so they walk away.