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  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:36 AM
    shonny7
    Should I call her again?
    Well, almost an year ago, I went out with a girl. We went on three dates and I had great time with her, and I think she did too. But, for some reason she stopped calling me or entertaining me after third date. I moved on assuming she wasn't interested. During that time, I dated few other girls, in fact had one relationship for 7-8 months (not together anymore). But, even after one whole year, one relationship, and so many dates , I cannot forget her. I really enjoyed being with her and everything about her. I never felt similar magic with any other girl.

    Now the questions is: she stopped calling, which means she is/was not interested. But, I still think about her. Do you think that I even have slightest chance with her? If yes, how should I proceed? Or If not, well then show must go on!

    I would really appreciate female perspective about it Or their behavioral patter on similar issue. Thanks!
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:55 AM
    Rabbit91
    Phone her up, there is no harm in asking "how ya doing."

    I think if you have strong feelings for her, you shouldn't just let her go.

    Don't give up before you even try.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 02:02 PM
    JAMIET
    If you can't stop thinking about her after a year... 2 words for you from a female... CALL HER!
  • Aug 1, 2008, 12:08 AM
    flash84x
    Give it a shot, just call and be honest (to an extent, don't creep her out lol)

    Let her know you were thinking about her and wanted to see how she has been doing
  • Aug 1, 2008, 12:17 AM
    ISneezeFunny
    Ah, I think I'm in a relatively similar state. I went on a couple of dates with this one girl... beautiful, smart, independent, (and rich!)... but sparks never actually flew. Granted, we had a good time... but we just kind of drifted apart. I still think about her pretty often.

    It's been about 3 months since I've spoken to her... but it's very possible that you may put her on a pedestal because things really didn't span out. She may be the "one that got away" type deal... where you just kind of wonder, "what if".

    The others are right... there's no harm in calling her and seeing how she's doing... possibly getting coffee or getting something to eat. However, don't set your expectations too high.
  • Aug 4, 2008, 09:16 PM
    brkfstatiffs
    Call her for sure! No harm in calling...

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