Ask Me Help Desk - Me and girlfriend got bumps in genitals

OK I was like eleven and a virgin and I got these little white pimple type things on the shaft of ma penis and balls and on the head around the rim there are very tiny bumps. Then when I was 13 I had sex with a 16 year old but it was safe.and she wasn't a virgin (in fact she was well traveled if you know what I mean) and now I am having steady sex with a virgin and then she got the same things. Except different places. Obviosly. But its impossible for it to be std , so what is it? And I am now 14.and so is she.

All the sex I have is safe. They aren't sore or bleeding , they have spread since I first got them. But not too bad though and they are more pimple like that an rash .
I figured it would be better not to pop them.

My dad knows I am having sex he doesn't like it but he know he can't really follow me around and stop me so he gave me the talk and her parents on are very up tight. So how can I get medical attention without allerting paretns?

PLEASE HELP, LEAVE SOMETHING ANYINFO YOU MIGHT KNOW.

I am assuming you don't have any other signs/symptoms. It is not unusual to develop a rash or "bumps" in the genital area. The important questions are, are they painful? Is there itching or bleeding? Do they seem to be spreading? This is not something that can be diagnosed on the internet, but if there aren't any other symptoms, it is unlikely you have an STD, but you should still check with a doctor. What concerns me the most is that you are worried that you might have a STD at your age. Not to sound "preachy" but you are WAY too young to be having sex. Please take care of yourself and ALWAYS, ALWAYS practice safe sex if you are going to have sex. Geesh... you shouldn't be worrying about these things at your age. You should be worried about making the sports team or hanging out with your friends. Slow down. You have all your life ahead of you.

... really quick question...

HOW is it that it's impossible to have an std?. condoms aren't 100% you know.

Little white pimple-y bump things are relatively common... could be due to an irritation... etc.

I agree with ibuskids that you're really too young to have sex... as... what're you going to do if a girl gets pregnant?

Regardless, I know it won't really stop you, so... here goes. Go to a clinic. Go get tested. Get 100% confirmation that you're clean.

What are the white pimple like things look like actually.

Do they have a white center? When you pop them, do they have a white pus?

They are spreading? How are they spreading? Like where skin touches?

Try searching on Google for images with a discription of what they look like etc..

But you need to see a doctor.

Sorrie kid, you feel your "Adult" enough to have sex. Then you need to take responsibility and own up for what you could be spreading to your girlfriend. Tell your parents and stop having sex. You ovbiously aren't mature enough for all the responsibilities.

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Originally Posted by bman800

ok i was like eleven and a virgin and i got these little white pimple type things on the shaft of ma penis and balls and on the head around the rim there are very tiny bumps. then when i was 13 i had sex with a 16 year old but it was safe.and she wasnt a virgin (in fact she was well traveled if you know what i mean) and now i am having steady sex with a virgin and then she got the same things. except different places. obviosly. but its impossible for it to be std , so what is it? and i am now 14.and so is she.

all the sex i have is safe. they arent sore or bleeding , thay have spread since i first got them. but not too bad though and they are more pimple like that an rash .
i figured it would be better not to pop them.

my dad knows i am having sex he doesnt like it but he know he can't really follow me around and stop me so he gave me the talk and her parents on are very up tight. so how can i get medical attention without allerting paretns?

PLEASE HELP, LEAVE SOMETHING ANYINFO YOU MIGHT KNOW.

You can go to a clinic in your county's health department. If your dad knows you are having sex, tell him and ask him to take you to your family doctor. BTW, it sounds like your dad has "given up" on parenting if he's thrown his hands up and thinks "well, I can't control what he does,etc." This WILL eventually lead to an unplanned pregnancy or worse ( sex can kill you ). My teen daughter got pregnant and had a baby at age 16 because I thought the same thing your dad did. Not that we don't love our grandson, but her life is HELL. She has responsibility that no one her age should face. OK, lecture over...