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  • Jul 31, 2008, 07:31 AM
    FritoLover99
    Is it Wrong
    Is it wrong to sleep wwith someone on the first date.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 07:41 AM
    samtheadvisor
    If u think sex is like taking breakfast, lunch or dinner then its OK to sleep with anyone .
  • Jul 31, 2008, 08:04 AM
    smoothy
    Wrong? Maybe... stupid?. most definitely.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 08:13 AM
    snowalps
    samtheadvisor gave pretty much the idea to you...
  • Jul 31, 2008, 08:26 AM
    N0help4u
    Its like shooting yourself in the foot then asking why you did it and then shooting yourself in the other foot for doing it.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 08:31 AM
    ISneezeFunny
    It kind of does scream slutty... no?

    Especially since... you just broke up with your boyfriend because he was supposedly cheating on you, right?

    Did you sleep with him because of your emotional state right now?
  • Jul 31, 2008, 08:39 AM
    excon
    Hello chito:

    No, it is not wrong to sleep with someone ever (assuming they're consenting adults).

    excon
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:13 AM
    talaniman
    As long as you accept the consequenses for your actions, you can do whatever the law allows.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:16 AM
    N0help4u
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Rabbit91
    I do it all the time :p

    Im a male so I get less $hit about it (Dont know how that works..hmm).

    Lifes to short to think about every action your pursue, just live man. :D

    If you are having sex with new people and alot I would make him wear protection just incase of accidental STD's or babies.


    Yeah I know a lot of guys that are in debt over their head to at least a half a dozen different moms because they are guys and didn't give a less $hit about it.

    Many -men or women --are still paying consequences years after their unexpected babies are all grown up.

    As has been pointed out to you at least twice now 'wearing protection' is not 100% full proof.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:31 AM
    N0help4u
    In debt = they owe hundreds of dollars for child support because their idea of fun turned into babies they didn't expect because they were 'wearing protection' and the girl got pregnant anyway. Something you don't seem to believe happens but it does.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 02:44 PM
    aliciag940
    Wrong is relative. You might wake up the next day and feel so cheap that it makes you sick. Then again, you might wake up and feel perfectly fine.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 03:44 PM
    Xrayman
    I did and we have been married for 17 years. So I don't think it's wrong for either sex to do so.

    Legal implications taken into account of course.


    Good point Talaniman !
  • Jul 31, 2008, 05:01 PM
    DuBas07
    Only you can answer that question. Morality is as unique as snowflakes in each individual. I personally have no problems with sleeping with women on the first date if its going really well, chemistry is key.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 05:20 PM
    jrebel7
    Why would you, aside from the thundering arousal that screams~~~~DO ME!! (This is meant to bring a little humor to the subject since it is such a heavy subject, not any reflection on you or any poster, we all know the strength of the drive!! ) :)

    Each poster has given their opinion. This is mine. My answer would be "YES". It would be wrong. I am interested in what you think about the question you pose Fritolover99!

    You have received an array of answers, each unique to the beliefs of each poster. One has to decide these issues in their heart early on and stick with what you know to be right. What feels right in and for the body, is not always!!
  • Jul 31, 2008, 10:00 PM
    kp2171
    ...

    Is it "wrong" covers so many areas... moral... physical... mental...

    Is it dumb to sleep with someone when you don't know their sexual past, their medical history? Sure. Perhaps.

    Sex with a partner you don't know much about increases your chances for contracting an STD. is that "wrong"? Your life, your body. Only you need to sleep with yourself in the long run.

    I've had "quick" sex with partners I probably didn't know well enough when younger, and I've abstained for years with a partner I loved who wanted to wait. It wasn't necessarily wrong in either extreme.

    What you can know is this... the more you know about your partners sexual history, the more you understand the risk you are taking when having sex. When its with a partner you don't know much about, it is riskier.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 10:01 PM
    Synnen
    How old are you?
  • Jul 31, 2008, 10:40 PM
    talaniman
    Is this a revenge sex thing, or a fast rebound attempt??
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    Posted By FritoLover99
    Is it Wrong

    Is it wrong to sleep wwith someone on the first date.

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    Posted By FritoLover99
    thanks for the ideas but i just decided to get...

    thanks for the ideas but i just decided to get rid of him because i read a text message from her that said i want you now.

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    Posted By FritoLover99
    I have asked him who she is but he just said an...

    I have asked him who she is but he just said an old friend. Does that mean they were dating or were they really just friends. I am gonna ask him to invite her over. Thanks for the ideas

    This had to be 3 interesting days, at any age.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 10:53 PM
    jrebel7
    Tal, nice overview and very enlightening! :)
  • Aug 1, 2008, 12:46 PM
    Choux
    Whoops, a double post by accident.

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