Ask Me Help Desk - My boyfriend thinks I'm a hassle?

Im 18 on Friday and my boyfriend of 10 months is also 18.

To sum up the problem, I don't like it when my boyfriend makes me feel like it's a hassle to see me. I don't know if its just me or whether he actually feels that way. :confused:

It's the summer hols and I called him to ask him over tonight and he just said it was too much of a hassle and he needs to sleep. Last night we stayed at my best friends boyfriends house with them because his parents were away. Normally, he finds my best mate really annoying and doesn't really get on with her but last night, they got on really well. At first, I was really happy about it but then he basically just played with my mate on the playstation all night and barely sat next to me. My mates boyfriend didn't seem impressed either but mainly because my mate and him had had an argument. I eventually just went to bed and my boyfriend wonders why I'm angry when he comes up to bed. I decided just to forget it because I thought I should be happy if they were getting along. Then he has the cheek to try and have sex with me! In the morning, he had to go to work at 8 so I didn't really see him today. I came to the door and said bye to him though.

I felt like he just wanted sex and that he hasn't really been with me so I wanted to spend some time with him today. I don't normally sees him on Wednesdays but I thought he'd want to see me as I am his girlfriend. According to him it's a hassle seeing me! Isn't time with me meant to be fun? He always says he loves me and kisses me really nicely but then he says that and I don't understand why.

Can anyone help me understand? Is it him in the wrong or am I just taking it the wrong way?

You are way to possessive over this guy! You want him to get along with your friend, then you don't want him to... What the hell? You are smothering this guy to the extreme, I can see why it would be a hassle after hearing all of this from you. You admitted you don't see him on wednesdays but now you feel he should because you're his girlfriend... You need to a take a GIANT step back

Rome is right, grow up, you're not married to him and therefore you shouldn't be his first priority.. neither should he..

I don't understand people who try to make problems out of nothing.. when all of us here had serious problems with our ex's.. eventually though, you'll be on here whining about your boyfriend who dumped you "for no reason", psh,

I wish you would make up your mind as to what you want, and then let him know. As it is your mighty demanding for a g/f. What about his needs, or does that count?

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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

You are smothering this guy to the extreme. You need to a take a GIANT step back

As "Romefalls19" has said,you really do smother this guy TOO MUCH :(

You really need to take a long hard look at where this relationship is going,if
anywhere!!

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You admitted you don't see him on wednesdays but now you feel he should because your his girlfriend...

This is a very good example of what I've said,above.......expecting not to see him one minute,demanding to see him,the next :confused: