How to win back the girl of my dreams
I was with the girl of my dreams for about 2 years. We started dating right after graduating from High School and it was love at first sight. Her previous boyfriend turned out to be a real jerk and an eventual stocker, aka one of my best friends. Now I know this sound horrible, like I stole my best friend’s girl from behind his back but that is not the case at all. In fact no one really knew they were dating and when I starting hanging out with her he freaked! She was so scared that he would do something stupid and I was there for her. She thought of me as her protector and that’s exactly what I did. I kept her away from the guy, who had turned into a stalker. It’s an awful situation that I would never wish on any girl, none would deserve it. At the end of summer we started college life. I stayed in town and she moved 800 miles away. It sucked and everyone thought we would breakup within a few months of being apart, even I had my doubts. Being that far away from each other we talked everyday and I visited her at least once a month. We made it a whole year in a long distance relationship, without faltering, which is extremely rare and we had a stronger relationship than ever because of it. With plans of marriage and children in the future we were inseparable. She even left the school she was at to be with me. She changed my life and I vowed never to let anything happen to her. We have gone through pretty much any hardship you could possibly imagine in our relatively brief time as a couple, and I really mean that. She was and still is the love of my life.
Not too long ago we started to become sort of distant. Not hanging out as much, mostly because I had to work all the time. And eventually she decided that we should take a break. This scared the hell out me! I was constantly thinking about what I did wrong. I had never cheated on her; I didn’t even look at other girls in that way anymore. I have always treated her with the utmost respect; listening to what she had to say and doing things for her without her having to ask, I would do pretty much anything she would ask and defiantly anything for her. As this “break” went on I felt that things may be getting a little better and then she dropped the bomb, “We should just go our own separate ways for a while and see what happens.” Now obviously I was heartbroken and shocked and admittedly I have done pretty much everything you are not supposed to do in the post-breakup situation, including; texting her all the time and really just not giving her the space that she needed. The problem is we work in the same building and I see her every day. Now don’t get me wrong I love seeing her everyday but it’s hard at the same time because I know that things just aren’t the same.
I see and talk to her almost every day, I mean how could I not we work 30 feet away from each other! And the kicker is every so often she kisses me. She kisses me in a way that blows my mind, how could she not still have some feelings for me with a kiss like that? - I would think to myself.
I think about her constantly, I can’t get her out of my head and I have found that I really don’t want to get over her. I want her back so bad that I am willing to do just about anything to make that happen. If it means space then I’ll give her space, if she wants me to change something about myself then so be it. The main thing is that I want is for her to be happy, hopefully with me but if it turns out that it is with someone else then of course I will be heartbroken, but if she is happy, and truly happy then that’s all that really matters.
What should I do? How do I get her back?