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  • Jul 29, 2008, 01:54 AM
    iceeman
    Ex acting strange?
    I don't know why but ever since we broke up (2 months ago) she has been acting like a skank... I been looking on her myspace and she has been putting stuff like... I need too get laid soooo badly... I'm another notch on a bedpost but w/e... stuff like that... I think she knows I keep looking at her myspace so I don't know if she keeps putting that to make me jealous or what... but now she is acting like a skank trying to do 1 night stands with guys... she really didn't seem like that before when we were dating so I don't know... she's just been acting really strangly now not giving a crap about anything just putting her self out there... maybe because she is only 19 and being immature but I don't knoww... I still care about her and hate to see her act like that... ive tried talking to her but now she only ignores me.. but she still has pics of when we broke up saying like the smell of your skin lingers on me now.. only time will tell stuff like that.. I'm just worried about her she's being wacko...
  • Jul 29, 2008, 02:03 AM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Maybe she felt held down, suppressed, or stuck with you, and now she is acting out, or possibly just making up for lost time...
  • Jul 29, 2008, 05:10 AM
    bigbird213
    I can imagine that is a tough thing to deal with. If there is one thing that I can tell you, it's that you shouldn't be looking at her myspace. Its hard to read these types of things about someone that you once loved, and putting yourself through that isn't healthy. You would be better off not knowing anything else about what she is doing...

    As to why she is saying those things: Perhaps she is just being immature and trying to get a reaction out of you, perhaps she is being immature and looking for a rebound since she thinks it will make her feel better. Either way, it has no bearing on you, you need to remove that from your life and begin to move past her. If she wants to talk with you, she knows how.
  • Jul 29, 2008, 05:50 AM
    talaniman
    Its not your business or concern any more. Your healing is. Get off the Facebook, or myspace, or whatever.
  • Jul 29, 2008, 05:59 AM
    Romefalls19
    Dude, stop looking at her myspace! You are virtually stalking this girl, no wonder she ignores you. You two are over, you can't do anything for her anymore, so whatever decisions she makes in her life is completely her business. Could she be doing this stuff to get a rise out of you? Sure, and you're feeding right into it but looking at it. I bet you look at it several times a day. When will you learn you are only delaying the recovery of your own heart? She's moved on, now it's your turn!
  • Jul 29, 2008, 11:00 AM
    JBeaucaire
    Yeah, she is doing all this just to make you jealous. Yeah, right. That's what's going on. I'm sure... (eyes roll uncontrollably out of their sockets)

    Don't have a life to get back to? This is all you got to do with your free time? Turn off the computer and go take a karate class...
  • Jul 29, 2008, 11:14 AM
    Andrew916
    She's gone dude. Whatever she does is her buisiness now. That ship has sailed and your free of any ties to her behaviour.

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