I have been talking to this guy for 5 months now and it has been on and off. During the first few months, he told me that he was dating other girls while talking to me and after awhile I ignored him. Although I was ignoring him, he would still call and so then I thought he was actually interested in me because he said he would stop talking to the other girls.

He eventually stopped talking to them and then I began to talk to him again. He told me his purpose for talking to them was for sex only and we have talked about sex and I told him that I was a virgin and don't plan to lose my virginity just yet.

Still, he continued talking to me and I figured he's actually interested in me for me and not just for sex but now I'm believing otherwise because now, that's all he talks about and when I ask him to change the subject he gets all upset and stuff. He also keeps persisting that I should go over to his house and stuff. I keep on saying no and he keeps on persuading me. He even aked me what do I want from him then.

What do you think ? Does he want me or sex?

Is this some person you met on line and continued conversations ? I would stay away from this one if this is so. It is totally unsafe to go to his house. If you haven't met him, best to meet him in a very PUBLIC place.

Anyone that makes you that uncomfortable, when it comes to respecting your decsion to wait for the right time for sexual intercourse, I think, wants you for the wrong reasons. I'm sure he has needs too, but pressuring you like that isn't right, any guy that has any feeling s for a women or girl would respect their feelings and NOT press the issue, SULLY

I would say, most likely that is all he is interested in

Sounds like he is only looking for sex, some guys do not know how to go for a real relationship.

Hi Nohelp, you are right, some don't know how to have a relationship, they are afraid of the commitment so they try to fill their life in with sexual encounters. It's a short term fix for them.

He is only after one thing... Sex. Get rid of him. Find yourself a good guy who respects your "NO."

Come on Shanny. You know the answer.

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Originally Posted by shanny_2006

I have been talking to this guy for 5 months now and it has been on and off. During the first few months, he told me that he was dating other girls while talking to me and after awhile I ignored him. Although I was ignoring him, he would still call and so then I thought he was actually interested in me because he said he would stop talking to the other girls.

He eventually stopped talking to them and then I began to talk to him again. He told me his purpose for talking to them was for sex only and we have talked about sex and I told him that I was a virgin and don't plan to lose my virginity just yet.

Still, he continued talking to me and I figured he's actually interested in me for me and not just for sex but now I'm believing otherwise because now, that's all he talks about and when I ask him to change the subject he gets all upset and stuff. He also keeps persisting that I should go over to his house and stuff. I keep on saying no and he keeps on persuading me. He even aked me what do I want from him then.

What do you think ? Does he want me or sex?

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That would be the classified "prick" who just wants to get in your pants.

Get rid of him, find a guy who respects shanny for who shanny is! =)

He wants sex.

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Originally Posted by shanny_2006

I have been talking to this guy for 5 months now and it has been on and off. During the first few months, he told me that he was dating other girls while talking to me and after awhile I ignored him. Although I was ignoring him, he would still call and so then I thought he was actually interested in me because he said he would stop talking to the other girls.

He eventually stopped talking to them and then I began to talk to him again. He told me his purpose for talking to them was for sex only and we have talked about sex and I told him that I was a virgin and don't plan to lose my virginity just yet.

Still, he continued talking to me and I figured he's actually interested in me for me and not just for sex but now I'm believing otherwise because now, that's all he talks about and when I ask him to change the subject he gets all upset and stuff. He also keeps persisting that I should go over to his house and stuff. I keep on saying no and he keeps on persuading me. He even aked me what do I want from him then.

What do you think ? Does he want me or sex?

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Don't GO OVER TO HIS HOUSE IF HE WANTS TO HANGOUT GO TO PUBLIC PLACES.. the more your alone in a secluded place with him he will want to try everything to steal your virginity.. and he will say all the right things! Things that he knows you want to here! Most guys will do anything for sex.. most not all!