My boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me last Friday. He was my first serious relationship and I found it hard to trust him as before him I had many less then 2 week relationships where the guy would find another girl. He says the reason is because he doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore. I went to his house every weekend and one day during the week and he would come over one day during the week. I don't get along with his youngest brothers girlfriend who I go to school with and also don't get along with his older brother. We both didn't have money as he was in and out of jobs so we only ever went out twice in our relationship. This is his first serious relationship and has previously broken up with me (one month into the relationship) because he thought he didn't like me but came back saying he made a mistake. The day before the breakup he was still telling me he loved me but now has made it clear he doesn't. THe night of the break up I still stayed over but for days after found out he messaged other girls he had once liked and had revealed my secrets to them. We have been talking lately and he has made it clear he just wants a break from the relationship but might get back together in a few months. I slept over his house lastnight but only seemed to want to show me affection when no-one was around. He is 2 years my elder and I am 3/4 through my year 12 studies. My question is do you think I'm being played around or do you think he just genuinlly needs a break? I have tried writing him letters and messaging him but he just keeps saying he wants a break. He also says not to wait around for him and if I find another guy then go for it but we will probably end up getting back together in a few months. SO yeah am I being played for a fool ?

Are you saying you are almost 13 and he is 15?
Why are his parents or your parents allowing you to stay at his house?
Sounds like he wants to keep your hopes up in case nothing else works out for him with any other girls.

No I'm 17 and he's 19..

Sorry, but you are much deeper with your feelings, than he is, and its clouding your judgment. He has broken up and tells you, he will be back?? Sorry that's not love, or caring, so the answer is your handy, and available when he wants you. Not healthy, and you should disappear from his life, forever.

See this as a blessing in disguise, as your free to be a better person, and be ready for a real man that cares... after you heal, and regroup, and build a life that you enjoy without him in it.