My husband and I have been trying for some time now to get me to achieve a g-spot orgasm. I've even tried on my own and just can't seem to get there in the manner that I have seen/heard. Our sex life is great. We communicate wonderfully. He just wants to give me this "gift" to make it all the more better for me. Any advice or tips to try?

Some women can never achieve this. They are just not "built" that way, and the nerve endings are not there.

Enjoy what you have, and don't strive towards something that may or may not be attainable, especially at the cost of frustration leading to less enjoyment in the bedroom, in my opinion.

And... can I put a disclaimer...

Let's not turn this into a "does a G-Spot exist?" debate...

We've all been there, done that, and... synnen has closed the question for this. So... let's not go there.

I assume he's tried the "come hither" move with his fingers inside, facing up towards the abdomen. If not, that is a classic way to go.


Also, the penetration level from behind is increased, and many women find a lot of pleasure as long he does not go too fast/deep and hurt you. You can adjust the angle to suit you.

Finally, on top, with the support of the bedframe, if you have a high one, is a great way to adjust the angle to hit the forward lower abdomen area that houses the O-button.

Note: for many, the clitoris is the ultimate g-spot.

I guess you are a multiple orgasmic woman now and want to add a g-spot experience?

I have done a lot of research on the "g-spot", but I'll just share a tiny bit with you. What are commonly called the g-spot cells lie on the side of the vagina that is closest to the urethra, the tube that leads urine from the bladder to the outside of the body.

The cells called the g-spot are microscopically different looking from surrounding cells. However, in tests, their function is not different.

So, IN MY OPINION, the g-spot adds an extra dimension of pleasure for women when the area is pressed by stimulating the urinary system and perhaps, the sensitive cells from the clitoris thus enhancing a potential orgasmic experience.

If I were you, I would have trial and error to find that area called the g-spot. Be sure you are turned on a lot before your partner tries to find it.

ENJOY!

For clarification - our sex life is great - and I don't really feel that a g-spot orgasm is unattainable.

To the others - thanks for the tips! All we can do is have fun trying! :)