My girlfriend break up with me on MSN about 2 weeks age since then I have send few sms to her wanting her back. I truly love her. After two weeks now she is coming to pick up her things from our place and moving to another town.. I really want her.. I have reflex on all the things that went wrong and I am even willing to move to the town that she is moving. And she will start to study at the university. And I told her will I can move there also and I will look for a new job. At first she agree then later she said she want to be their alone and she don't have feeling for me any more. After she break up in MSN.. this will be the first time I will see her when she is coming to pick up her things. But what can I say to her when she comes to park up her things.. I really want her back !

You didn't mentioned what's the reason for her to moved to another town.

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my girlfriend break up with me on MSN about 2 weeks age since then i have send few sms to her wanting her back. I truely love her. after two weeks now she is coming to pick up her things from our place and moving to another town..i really want her ..i have reflex on all the things that went wrong and i am even willing to move to the town that she is moving. but what can i say to her when she comes to park up her things ..? I really want her back !

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She is going to start to study at the university.

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you didnt mentioned whats the reason for her to moved to another town.

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She is going to start study at the university. Before then we agree to move together and later she change her mind. And break up with me on MSN... after two weeks now she is coming to pick up her things.

Now you have to dig up what's her real reason on breaking up with you... see how you go

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now you have to dig up whats her real reason on breaking up with you...see how you go

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Yes I have tried and she send a message saying that she don't have feelings for me anymore. And that I don't respect her and that she was unhappy while we were together for 1.7years. They town there she is moving to is were her parents lives. And I have told her that I am willing to move there with her

Mate, I think its for your own good, who knows you might find another one who will better than her... I remember when I was in high school, I have a crushed on this girl and she was really gorgeous ( during that time) after 15 years I saw her again, and guess what, she's no match to my partner now... you know there are things that don't happen that we want may mean that is not for us... if you're still young... just go on... there could be a better one waiting there... good luck

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mate, i think its for your own good, who knows you might find another one who will better than her........i remember when i was in high school, i have a crushed on this girl and she was really gorgeous ( during that time) after 15 years i saw her again, and guess what, she's no match to my partner now....you know there are things that dont happen that we want may mean that is not for us.....if you're still young.....just go on.....there could be a better one waiting there....good luck

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I am 30 now.. and she is about 25

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I am 30 now ..and she is about 25

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So when she comes to pick up her things let me don't say anything to her? I was thinking to tell her how I feel from my heart. What's your advice?

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mate, i think its for your own good, who knows you might find another one who will better than her........i remember when i was in high school, i have a crushed on this girl and she was really gorgeous ( during that time) after 15 years i saw her again, and guess what, she's no match to my partner now....you know there are things that dont happen that we want may mean that is not for us.....if you're still young.....just go on.....there could be a better one waiting there....good luck

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I am almost 30 and she is younger then me about 24 -25
So when she comes to pick up her things let me don't say anything to her? I was thinking to tell her how I feel from my heart. What's your advice?

Your making a big mistake, don't crowd her in give her space. You can't make someone love you, especially if she doesn't want it. Respect her wishes, as much as it hurts, and work on yourself right now getting back on track. We have all be through it. If you ever want any chance of her reconciling with you, your going about it the wrong way. Stop begging her, it won't work, it will only push her away further. Don't call her, let her be alone... and then maybe she will miss you.

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So when she comes to pick up her things let me don't say anything to her?

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"delfinno" she's moving away for a reason She's going to university &
Also,to have a fresh start,AWAY from you!

Safe face and start no contact, read the stickies at the top of the forum and become content with knowing its over.

That chapter in your life is closed, but you have the option of over half a billion other females so have fun.

Yep, chapter in this book is closed. When she comes to pick up her stuff, be polite and give her stuff and keep it short. Do not sacrifice your dignity by begging and pleading her to reconsider.

If you don't know what to do, join the military and start a new life