Im going through a bad break up. Ive tried to have protected sex with but I don't seem to enjoy as much. I think is because I'm still hooked on my ex. Is this normal? What should I do about this.

You tried having protected sex with who? I think that could be an essential part of the question.

Ive tried to have protected sex with other girls. Ive recently broke up with my ex girlfriend about month ago. Should I give myself time to heal?

You should absolutely let yourself time to heal. Sex with strangers doesn't cure anything. And SAFE sex TO ME means no sex. You don't know what these girls are carrying, it's not safe. Give yourself time to heal. Be about you right now, you have the extra time to do so, take advantage of that.

You should be having safe sex with ANYONE you aren't married to.

It takes time to grieve over the loss of someone you loved.

Be sure and endure the sadness and heartbreak... there is no shortcut from misery.

Proper safe sex is statistically very safe. Please go to planned parenthood and educate yourself.

Having kids with a girl will not help a struggling/failed relationship and you'd be bringing a kid into a situation that is not fair to the child.

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Originally Posted by MC12545

Im going through a bad break up. Ive tried to have protected sex with but i dont seem to enjoy as much. I think is because im still hooked on my ex. Is this normal? what should i do about this.

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You need to grieve for that relationship, believe me... Sex will not take away heartbreak... In the end it just hurts you. Condoms, do indeed feel different then sex without. If that's what you mean, but your head maybe still with thoughts of you ex... but you are the only one that can answer that.