Is there any one that has a soution are know of something to use in the disher to keep spots off dishes and glasss. I use jet dry but don't help. Could it be the dish washer?

Could be your water is too hard and leaving mineral deposits, in which case, jetdry won't do any good. There are many options, many different dishwashing detergents. You have to do some research yourself and see what your grocery store has. Read labels.