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  • Jul 21, 2008, 12:35 PM
    Vijaykommera
    Tensions situations in marriage life making me worried
    I appreciate,If any one can give a solution to my problem,

    I recently got married whom I loved by going against to my parents also, because I thought she only can understand me well other than anyone this world by before marriage expireances, but all of sudden clouds are covered my life due to my wife's behaviour these days, I am really getting worried about my life.

    Before marriage my wife is my friend and she used takes lot of care about me and about my parents,she used to support me in all situations.So we Informed to our parents that we both are in love and we want get married to each other,but both sides Parents not accepted for our marriage,So we took decision to get married and we done by going against to parents, after that my parents accepted but girls parents not accepted till,Still girls parents telling her leave me and come down to home alone.So I told my wife to don't think much about your parents and don't be low,but she always remebrs her parents and feeling low with me,So I am getting lot frustration by seeing her always low by remebering her parents,same time my parents asking us to come down to home for parties,So after going down to my parents house,she is feeling low.So I am asking her to don't be low at least in front of my parents because they will feel bad about Us.then she is getting tensed and going out without informing me by telling that she is going to die.I am also going behind of her and begging her to not do like that things, she repeated like this situations 4 times in 4 months of marriage life.

    So I never saw my wife like this before my marriage,She is very enjoyable person,kind,care everyone by giving good respect to elders before our marriage,but lot of diffrence in her behaviour after marriage by doing like suicide atempts and talking very loudly to me. After some hours she gets out of that tension and she is telling that she is behaving like this due frustration b'caz of missing her parents.

    So now I am in shock about my wife,I she going to do something bad in that tension,then that will be bad for my life and not only my life,it will effect my parents life also.I am worried lot about my problem and I really want a solution for my problem.

    I will be very thanksfull to anyone who can make my life beautifull by giving good Advice,So that I can make my wife and my parents happy at the sametime.
  • Jul 21, 2008, 01:07 PM
    tickle
    You will get better answers if you correspond through an english intermediary.

    You are from a different culture and reaching out for answers, vija. I am so sorry you are in this predicment. Fill out your profile, please.
  • Aug 4, 2011, 09:20 PM
    3237khan
    You should respect her,because she showed some guts to marrey you.. its shows she likes you than her parents. Now she felt regret about her parents. Of course parents are more respectabile than you. Don't try to possess her in this time.. you should support her mentally than possessing her. Its give you better result... why don't do you give some piece to her ,if you love her so much... respect her... give more and more time

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