Hi I'm 17 yrs old and my ex-boyfriend and I had been dating for almost 3 years until we broke up! Now he is still attracted to me and he still misses me and wants to spend time with me but yet he is not sure that he wants to get back together so what's a girl to do? The other night we stayed up talking all night about memories and how he misses me but yet he doesn't want to get back together right now! Now I've heard that to get him to want me back I should try not to be available but its very difficult because he knows me so well I mean we practically finish each others sentences so what should I do? Are they're any pointers someone can give me? And I want him to love me and want me back but I make all the mistakes a girls not supposed to I call him and message him and I'm trying to stop but he and I have been friends for along time please help me ! Give me some advice!

Tell him straight out what you want and how you feel.

That really is the only way to get over some one. Why did you break up?

The problem I see is that if he enjoys talking to you, and you still talk all the time even now that you are broken up, then he can still have you on the side while he is doing his own thing. If you want him to want you back then you need to quit calling him, and if he calls try to ignore him otherwise it will never work.

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Originally Posted by Johnny Knocker

That really is the only way to get over some one. Why did you break up?

The problem I see is that if he enjoys talking to you, and you still talk all the time even now that you are broken up, then he can still have you on the side while he is doing his own thing. If you want him to want you back then you need to quit calling him, and if he calls try to ignore him otherwise it will never work.

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Well we broke up because he didn't think he was happy and did I mention we live long distance so it was difficult to see each other but we saw each other like every two months so iono what to do?

You are young, and I'm assuming about to go into college? Take a break - enjoy your years single, I promise you there will be other men out there, and to be tied down going into college is never fun.