Is it true that men don't like dating women who are still virgins in their 20's?
If you're a guy: Would you break up with someone you have been going out with if you found out she is a virgin?

No. Just a line to make you feel pressured into something before you are ready.

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Originally Posted by lf156

Is it true that men don't like dating women who are still virgins in their 20's?

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Probably not because most guyz like it when a girl is experienced

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Originally Posted by chicanaprincess

probably not because most guyz like it when a girl is experienced

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You said probably not, but then you said they like experienced women?

A guy loves it when he finds a girl that is not 'experienced but most guys figure that is NOT going to happen because society has it ingrained in everybody's head that everybody is doing it. So when a guy does find a girl that hasn't it can be like finding a pearl in a haystack.

I'd still date the 27 year old if I was 28-32 year old range =]

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lf156, Is it true that men don't like dating women who are still virgins in their 20's?

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The only guys that do are the ones who don't want a caring relationship, but plenty of sex, and those kind of guys are a waste of time.

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If you're a guy: Would you break up with someone you have been going out with if you found out she is a virgin?

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No!! Unless she was obviously incompatible, or was no fun at all.

When I met the woman I love, the fact of her being a virgin or not, was not even on my radar screen.

Unless the guy is extremely religious, and finding a virgin is HIGH on his priority list, I don't think most men really worry about it much.

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Originally Posted by progunr

When I met the woman I love, the fact of her being a virgin or not, was not even on my radar screen.

Unless the guy is extremely religious, and finding a virgin is HIGH on his priority list, I don't think most men really worry about it much.

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No, the question is if you would leave a woman you're dating because she's still a virgin in her 20s... because a lot of guys think it's weird.

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Originally Posted by lf156

No, the question is if you would leave a woman you're dating because she's still a virgin in her 20s...because a lot of guys think it's weird.

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I thought that the fact that I didn't care one way or the other answered the question, but, since you seem to think it didn't.

NO!

OK
Thing is, the guys I date get completely turned off when I tell them and they break up with me because of it

Then that means the guys are shallow about it...

I actually do care if my future partner is a virgin or not cause if she's had more than 2 guys.... not good at all

Just like a car... the first owner is decent with it.. sells it out..

the second owner is decent with it... sells it out..

third owner IS NOT decent with it... something is wrong

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Originally Posted by lf156

ok
thing is, the guys I date get completely turned off when i tell them and they break up with me because of it

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All that says is you haven't been very good at picking the guys.

If this happens, they were not dating you with any honorable intentions in mind.

They had their eye on the prize.

When they found out that the prize has a lock on it, they move on to find an easier prize.

You need to find guys that have some values and not the type that are into 'Girls gone wild'!

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Originally Posted by progunr

All that says is you haven't been very good at picking the guys.

If this happens, they were not dating you with any honorable intentions in mind.

They had their eye on the prize.

When they found out that the prize has a lock on it, they move on to find an easier prize.

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The best example: male tourists who go to Las Vegas just for prostitutes

For me, my ex was willingly to give her virginity to me... so that's a different story

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it's alright... some couples (very rare) stay virgin until they find the right person and have sex until after marriage

I'm not waiting till marriage. I've just never had a very serious relationship, and I don't want to have sex outside one.

You have more values many lack follow them and don't give in to pressure.

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Originally Posted by lf156

I'm not waiting till marriage. I've just never had a very serious relationship, and I don't want to have sex outside one.

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Then you are one of the few female species who ARE ABLE TO CONTROL THEMSELVES unlike the new generation of stupid teens who have nothing else to do except spend money on fashion, screw around during educational time, and bone each other like the relationship will last forever.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

You have more values many lack follow them and don't give in to pressure.

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I'm not really under pressure as such, though I do get some stick from friends.
But in general, guys seem to run away from me because I'm a virgin.

Then they just are not worth it be glad because you have a very simple way of weeding out who isn't worth your time.
Other girls have to learn the hard way that the guy isn't worth it!