Hiya,

I need to no if I am being used or what. I am a pa and one of my managers just left and we kept in talking, then we started talking a dirty. We have met up and slept together the thing is I am engaged to a lad who doesn't seem bothered with me anymore. And this lad is married and has a 3 month old baby with her. Is he just intrested in me cause his wife is busy with the baby? I am so confused

Thanks

Why are you in this situation being engaged? If you're not happy with your fiancée end it, don't stay engaged and get married while your cheating on him.

And why are you involved with a married man?

The question I have for is why is concerned if he's interested in you? Why are you interested in a married man?

If your boyfriend does not want to be bothered with you then why are your engaged? The only thing the married man can give you is sex which it seems like he no longer wants. He must have realize what he was doing was wrong and choose his family over you. Is that so bad?

You need to find someone single for yourself and stay away from married men even if they seem interested in you.

Honestly? It doesn't matter why or if he is interested in you, he shouldn't be. He's married.

Don't go down this path... it only leads to heartache and broken hearts... and in this case, a broken family.

You deserve someone as free to love you as you are to love him... i.e. your fiancee'. This man isn't free.

Yep, you were easy and once he tires of meaningless sex it will be over. Or once you get some self respect and get tired of being used. So you need to leave your boyfriend since you can't love him if you are doing this, and why not call his wife and see if she cares if you are sleeping with him

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I need to no if I am being used or what.

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Yes, you are being used. Willingly I might add, as you have to know your looking for love
In all the wrong places,
The wrong way,
And with the wrong people,
And for the wrong reasons.

Yes you are being used! If not why he goes back to his wife?