About 3 weeks ago we started cuddling and holding hands but he says he's not my boyfriend (and seems to have no intention of changing that) I talk a lot about my cousin in another country, and she's visiting me next week. I want them to meet because I'm always talking to my cousin about him (liked him for 3 years before we started "going out") but I think if I keep urging him to meet my cousin, he will get supicious and know that I've been gossiping about him for so long? Why would you agree to meet someone who has heard SO MUCH about you when your not in the room? Wouldn't that bother you? But he agreed to meet her.

Tell your cousin not to say too much because you don't want to scare him away.
I also wouldn't expect more than friends and cut down or out the holding hands and cuddling
If he asks why tell him you don't feel comfortable holding hands and cuddling with friends.
That should get him to decide if he wants more than friends or not. Right now he is comfortable where things are so why would he want more?

Is this the same guy who you stated is not physical attractive to you or you can't trust, because you have around 3 posts, I assumed about the same guy, all within a day. Its best to have all information on one post so that you can get the best answers.

I agree who the guy is?

Bad idea, since its not true.