Hello,
I have been dating this girl for almost seven years. During the first four, we had sex several times per week but then I moved in with her and that all changed. After our fourth anniversary, her mother died and then we started having sex less and less. About four months later, I moved in and we stopped having sex altogether. We haven't had sex in over two years. I don't know what to do.
She says she'll be ready and I just need to wait, but for me it's not just about sex. We don't make out, we don't kiss intimately, we don't even share the same bed. I love her with all my heart but I honestly don't know how much longer I can wait. Every attempt at physical connection I make, she rejects. Should I continue to wait it out or try to find someone new?