I am deployed to Iraq and the mother of my 3 day old baby that I have not even seen gave my baby to some family to raise because she does not want the baby and is lying to the courts that she wants and has custody when in fact she had the baby, named it and then gave it away and continues to lye about its whereabouts. I have retained a lawyer and I want my baby, I am 23 and my parents are backing me 100%. The family she gave the baby to have alcohol and drug problems, no children of their own and now have my baby. I am waiting to hear back from my lawyer but he won't be back in town for 6 days. Any ideas?. I thought about turning her into social services and then I could prove she is not taking care of the baby and it is not living with her.