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  • Jul 15, 2008, 10:11 AM
    yellowmellow
    I don't feel anything when I am having sex
    Well,
    I'm not that old I'm a teenager 15,
    And me and my boyfriend have had sex
    3 times
    And I haven't felt anything
    Just a feeling of pushing on me and I can't feel
    Anything at all, is it a diasease ? What's wrong with me ?
    Why can't I feel anything
    And its so FRUSTRATING !
    I told him and he wonders why
    Like its obviously in the right hole I told him,
    But I don't know what to do I'm so confused why it won't work?
    Help! :confused:
  • Jul 15, 2008, 10:33 AM
    orgless
    Yeah that's about all I feel too, so we aren't the only ones but god knows how to fix it as I have been trying for years now
  • Jul 15, 2008, 12:09 PM
    jessirich
    Well Sweetie, I am going to tell you that you need to realize first what the consequences are when you have sex at a young age. You could get pregnant, get any number of diseases, and be emotionally hurt. Each one of these last a lifetime. You should wait until you are emotionally fit because it can really hurt you. I got pregnant at age 15, and after 3 months of being pregnant (just getting over the shock and getting somewhat okay with it), I lost the baby. I have been left with the pain of losing my baby, and every year at this time (it was due on July 18th), I grieve. I know no matter what anypone says, you will do what you want, just like I did. But, please remember what can happen, and consider if you are ready or not!

    One thing that I can tell youis that sometimes some women cannot feel it. Even after years of being married. It's just what some women go through. Yes, it can get very upsetting, and frankly make you terribly mad, but sometimes you just have to get over it and find other ways to please yourself.
  • Jul 15, 2008, 12:34 PM
    Synnen
    Moved from Adult Sexuality because the OP is 15.
  • Jul 15, 2008, 01:01 PM
    Romefalls19
    I don't really know how to tackle this issue as I think you are too young to be having sex. You had to assure him it was the "right hole" it shows that he doesn't know much about female anatomy.

    Second, it shows you also don't know much about sexual intercourse because you think it could be a disease. If you knew about intercourse you would know the signs of an STD.

    But as for your main issue, instead of coming online for something that could, in your eyes, be serious, you should really contact your OBGYN.
  • Jul 15, 2008, 01:57 PM
    Stunning07
    Does your boyfriend have a small penis?
  • Jul 16, 2008, 07:30 AM
    bradysmama17
    Well he might not be the right person that God had in mind for you. Having sex before marriage is very special. Can you imagine telling you fiancee` you want to wait and why ou don't tell him. That makes him feel really bad especially if he saved his self for marriage. So just think of the consequences before you start making adult decisions.
  • Jul 16, 2008, 08:23 AM
    talaniman
    Get a check up from your gynecologist

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