I have been with my fiancée for 5 years. We got together when I was 18 he was 19. We started a relationship after a 'one night stand' in a hotel. We would meet up every weekend for this same thing then I started staying at his house every night. We had sex all the time EVERY night and I loved it. But then we tried to get pregnant. I had two miscarraiges and then finally a healthy baby girl 2 and a half years ago. And it is like I just am no longer interested. I have never cheated on him and never want to... sometimes I do have fantasies about sex other guys but I will not act on it. But I was just wondering why I feel like this. Honestly if he never asked me I would probably go for a couple times a year. I am young (only 23) and cannot see why it is like this. He tries almost every night and most of the time I try to go to sleep early or just tell him no. I feel bad doing this because he tells me I never give it to him but I just lost interest in the sex not him - I love being with him. But I am really confused. And sometimes when I feel so guilty and so I give in but just lay there you know just waiting for it to end. I don't like feeling like this. What can I do?