My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years. He is insecure about our relationship especially since I've not been very interested in sex since the baby was born. I pay bills over the internet and when he comes in and I'm on the computer he asks if I'm talking to my boyfriend or says he didn't mean to interrupt my conversation. If I'm on the phone he asks who I was talking to and acts as if he doesn't believe me when I tell him it was either my mother or his mother. I've never given him a reason to doubt me, all I do is work and come right back home. He's critical about every decision I make regarding my children or our child, as if I don't know how to raise children. He says I let them run over me when in fact I just want them to grow up happy and have wonderful memories of being a child. He has harsh words to me and the children when he thinks that one of us aren't listening or responding to him in a quick manner of time. It's to the point that one of my children doesn't even want to be around him and most of the time I don't either. Please help!

Probably been involved in a cheating situation himself so he is paranoid or has witnessed such may need to be told that he needs to be sure he is the only one for u if that is the case sometimes men feel left out because most attention goes to child or children

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Originally Posted by the3littlegirls

My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years. He is insecure about our relationship especially since I've not been very interested in sex since the baby was born. I pay bills over the internet and when he comes in and I'm on the computer he asks if I'm talking to my boyfriend or says he didn't mean to interrupt my conversation. If I'm on the phone he asks who I was talking to and acts as if he doesn't believe me when I tell him it was either my mother or his mother. I've never given him a reason to doubt me, all I do is work and come right back home. He's critical about every decision I make regarding my children or our child, as if I don't know how to raise children. He says I let them run over me when in fact I just want them to grow up happy and have wonderful memories of being a child. He has harsh words to me and the children when he thinks that one of us aren't listening or responding to him in a quick manner of time. It's to the point that one of my children doesn't even want to be around him and most of the time I don't either. Please help!

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He cheated on me in the past while I was pregnant! Yep, he's a cheater!

Marital/relationship counseling may help. Go find someone you trust and get started; then, invite him and find out his true colors.