The guy I like knows I like him, well everyone knows I like him. But he likes my best friend,
And knowing this I didn't care beacause I knew she wouldn't do anything about it because she doesn't like him that way.
I would do anything for him( that doesn't cross the line for a 13 yr old)
Every day I see him I fall for him more and more
There is a girl in my class trying to force me not to like him and another is forcing him to ask my best friend out.
I know nothing will ever happen between us because I know I'm not the skinniest prettiest girl in my year or at my school.
I know I should move on but I just cant,
I have never felt this way about another person before
I can talk to him about stuff that I know my friends just wouldn't under stand.
We have a really good relationship and I would like to be more than 'just friends' with him.
I am scared if I tell him how I feel he will run away and ignore me

Am I in love with him or is it a mega crush

How old are you, 13 too?If you are, it is called puppy love. Everyone has that story. You said he likes someone else so you just have to be friends with him for now. Impress him to by having good grades and excelling in your school activity. Any boys will be flattered to have you, including him!

Yes am 13

OK thanks so what do I do, I know he doesn't like my best friend because of her grades
He likes her because she is sporty and really athletic.
As I said I am frm being athletic and skinny but I am trying to find away to show him it doesn't matter what is on the outside but what is inside
And I was thinking to myself why? Why do I like him?
And I still haven't found an answer

It is not good for you to make the first move since he likes someone else. His eyes were set there and you will look awkward and trying hard. You can be extra nice and I advise you to do well in school be it academics or extra curricular activity. When you develop that confidence and personality because you are good on something, you will rock!

Yea I know school is more important, and was scared to make the first move because I have to sit near him in 2 subjects at school, and we have a good talk during these subjects and I don't want to make it awkward. My friend asked him out as a joke and he said no and I knew he wuld and because he said no I told him not to listen to my friend to cover myself and not make it awkward.all his friends tease me about it all the time every now and then they will find something new to tease me about like they did last week I was so embaressed by what they said.

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Originally Posted by hayley_808

ok thanx so wat do i do, i know he doesnt like my best friend because of her grades
he likes her coz she is sporty and really athletic.
as i said i am frm being athletic and skinny but i am trying to find away to show him it doesnt matter wat is on the outside but wat is inside
and i was thinking to myself why? why do i like him??
and i still havent found an answer

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I cannot answer you why you like him. I dont even know too why I liked my exes too. You dont have to pretend to be someone else just to impress. Being yourself will make you unique and stand out.My exes aren't quite on my primary standards but I liked them because they're themselves. I saw no pretences.

Only I can answer that but I just don't know. I am myself and he is himself and he is just like all 13 or 14 yr old boys. He is always farting and burping.

He even joins in sometimes and calls me a red nut, my friend who he likes told me he says stuff about me but she won't tell me what he says :(

In a grown up world, no ones perfect and that's what you call reality. Guys burp,fart and sometimes mean. You just have to live up with it and focus on your Personal Growth/Improvement before entering in a "relationship".

Just to add on, you should love yourself first and should be okay without a partner. Partner should just be addition to you, not your life, that's why you are required to be on your own frist and develop a high self esteem which you can acquire from having good friends, pleasing quality and excelling in a particular field.

OK that makes it clearer I am going to loose weight for my uncles wedding and engagement party in the next 16 weeks maybe that will make myself esteem go higher

If that's what will make you feel good, then do it!Exercise and don't do it drastically.Consult a dietician.

Yea I think it will I just don't know where to start or what to do