I got a lot of really good advise from my last question, but I'm still kind of stuck on what I should do. Quick recap me and my ex have been broken up since early May. At first it was really bad I begged and called non stop. When I stopped calling she ups and calls after a while. She came over one night we talked and she left. The very next week I invited her over for our favorite meal we ate laughed we had a few drinks and we slept together. After she said she felt bad she didn’t explain she just left. I still have things at her house honestly I have left the things there just trying to hold on to some type of tie to her, She hasn’t ask me to pick them up either .So is she holding on too. Should I confess my true feelings or simply walk away...

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Originally Posted by Dallasboy

At first it was really bad I begged and called non stop.

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Youve done enough. If she doesnt want you back, she wont make move.ANd quit playing on her games, just dont talk to her and most of all dont sleep with her. It only make things complicated.

Well In My Own Opinion With Situations Like This. Your In The Same Similar Perdicament I'm In. So If It Was Me I'd Tell Her Right Off The Bat How I Felt. If She Doesn't Know How U Feel She Can't Understand Where Your Coming From. And There Is Not A lot To Lose If U Tell Her But All That Much More To Gain. If You Don't Ell Her U Could Risk Not Fixing What Has Been Broken.

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but forget about her. If she wants to get back together, she will contact you. You'll regret the time you spent obsessing over her, trying to get her back.

The same thing happened to me. My boyfriend broke up with me and I spent at least a month thinking and crying over him everyday. And then he wanted to hang out. I took this (our talking daily and hanging once), as a signal that he wanted to get back together. Nothing happened. I am now with an amazing new boyfriend and never consider getting back together with my ex.

Forget about her. She will only stay in your life as long as you let her. The sooner you get over her, the sooner your life will begin.

You should always tell somebody how you feel no matter what because its worth the chance... you'll regret it otherwise.

You need to go No Contact with this girl, you are emotionally unstable and then hanging out with her is only going to tug at your broken heart even more. If you like the constant abuse, by all means stay in contact with her. I, for one, wouldn't want to deal with that. Cut off all ties with her, delete her number, e-mail, screenname, myspace, Facebook or whatever needs to be done. Use this time to heal, if she wants to talk to you, then she will but don't hold out hope for it because I don't see it happening.

I agree with Romes
And she just may holding onto your stuff thinking you do not want it or that it is there for when you get around to getting it.
Get your stuff and let it go.

I think you need time to see what YOU really feel. I think your reacting to your emotions, and need the time to think this out for the long term, without pressure, or influence from her. Then you'll know what it is you want to express, and the course of action you must take.

It takes two to tango... but sometimes you just have to breakdance...

If you get back to being yourself, riding solo, and being happy (and not just pretending that you are hoping that she'll see it) she'll want to know what you're doing, and what you're about again.

You can't sit in each other's pockets waiting for someone to slip up and make a bad move.

It really is just a game... stand up from the table and start walking.

What u go through is natural but u will get over it in time. Be strong and pray.

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Originally Posted by ylaira

what u go through is natural but u will get over it in time. Be strong and pray.

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