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  • Jul 8, 2008, 09:00 AM
    Becksf13
    Is there a chance of us getting back together?
    Ok well me & my fella wer 2getha 4 about 3 months & Ive never loved anyone like I have him, I know it waz a short relationship but we had an amazin connection despite him living q far away! We broke up after a silly argment & me being as I am let all my from my past ruin it I got scared after the argument that he was going to leave me so rang him all the time to sort it out instead it pushed him further away! He said he did love me but wanted to be single it has now been 3 months almost & we speak at leat once evry 2 weeks because we agreed 2 stay friends, he always contacts me asking how I am txting me when he's out on the lash. I did ask if he wanted 2 giv things anotha go but he said we would hardly see each other as he moved home & the other day he text me saying he's moved bk home. I don't know how he feels I am getting mixed messages I have asked him what he meant by th message if he does want to giv it anotha go now or av I got it wrng but I isn't had a reply. Iz there a chance of us getting bk together or are we friends?
  • Jul 8, 2008, 09:09 AM
    Romefalls19
    I really can't understand what that post said, but from what I gathered, you two broke up, he said he wants to be friends. If you can't handle being friends, then don't be friends. He hasn't given you any reason to suspect otherwise. He could just like the friendship aspect of you n him.
  • Jul 8, 2008, 09:32 AM
    talaniman
    I can't see anything more than friends, given the distance, and the fact you only talk once every two weeks. Not a lot of bonding, or growing together going on. Move ahead, and enjoy being friends, but stop looking for more. If its fun and romance, look closer to home.

    Long distance relationships are very hard to deal with for even the most committed.
  • Jul 8, 2008, 10:44 AM
    redneck6
    I would say to wait till he's completely moved back and don't go strait into a relationship stay as freiends then get to be really good friends and if shows affection while you are really good friends then yeah ask him would you want to give this another try ? And if he says no then just stay as good friends then maybe one day he will ask you 2 give it another try and if he don't you might just have to move on,,

    Anyway keep me posted!!

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