Over 1 1/2 years ago my b/f & I moved to another state hoping financially would be better but things didn't turn out as planned. My boyfriend's co. closed at the end of last year -- Now we're facing foreclosure on a house -- We're working doing something I don't like trying to keep afloat -- not making enough to pay two houses as we had hoped we would -- Should I just forget about the house we're both on mortgage & foreclose on it; move back & start over? If I move back to my state I still won't be able to make enough to help cover the mortgage but I would hopefully have a job I'll enjoy. Then again, my relationship will suffer; although it's already suffering. Or should I continue to struggle & try to make it work; if so, for how long -- don't know how much longer I can endure.

The best advice I can give you regarding a foreclosure is to look up the website of DaveRamsey.com. He offers practical advice on all matters financial. I'm sure you can find good advice in some of his archives; or if you're patient enough, you may be able to get through on his daily radio talk show. Good luck. Don't let this financial stuff take your relationship.

Thank you so much for your advice... I was ready to let this financial nightmare take my relationship...