Me and my boyfriend have been together for 18 months now and he still doesn't act he loves me.. when he goes to work from 7.00am till 7.00pm I don't get one phone call its me that calls him through the day and I just have to wait for him to get home to see how he is.. He says he loves me but I just don't believe him .
I don't no if he loves me :(

I know the feeling. Me and ma boyfriend have been together for 4 years now and I had the same little problem. He wasn't showing me anything he couldn't tell me he loved me anymore are anything. We hardly talked on the phone much less to each other. We also lived together and we have a baby together and at home it was the same thing. I felt so distanced from him. I was under the impression he didn't love me anymore and didn't want me. I took for me to show and tell him I was willing to be with someone else who showed me they loved me for him to start showing me he cared and loved me. Now its like he's a whole nother person. You need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel and let him know he needs to start to show you something are it could end up in a bad way. Sometimes it takes to see what they are missing for them to open up and show you they care and do love u. good luck;)

It probably sucks to hear but he most likely takes you for granted because you call him so much and he probably looks at it like nagging more than anything else. Who knows if he loves you. He's not my next door neighbor for me to find out. Why don't you ask him and also tell him you don't want to call him during the day and you would appreciate it if he could try calling you when he has the time. This way you won't seem desperate to him

I was in the same situation but I was the unnatentive one,
Then one day my girlfriend said she wasn't as happy as she use to be and needed time to think if it was working. That did the trick.. the realisation of maybe losing her got me into action.

I think you need to try the same tatic.. if he just say's "fair enough it aint working" then he obviously isn't the man for you.

Thanks you nelsta78 :) Ill do that

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Originally Posted by jessie525

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 18 months now and he still doesnt act he loves me .. when he goes to work from 7.00am till 7.00pm i dont get one phone call its me that calls him through the day and i just have to wait for him to get home to see how he is .. He says he loves me but i just dont belive him .
I dont no if he loves me :(

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HI JESSIE,

Apparently you sent me reply re my hair styling issues, thank you.
Now, being a new member [and apparently a stupid 1 at that], I can not access my answers - can you please advise me as 'how to'??

Now regarding your boyfriend, have you ever tried not to call him during the day, and see what he says? Happens?

DAPHNE FREDERIK

Ever just ask him why he never calls? What does he say to a direct question?