Hello I have been going out with my boyfriend fro 5 months to be exact. He has a 6 year old son and I have three kids. We both have been in a relationship that did not work out for the both of us and so we both were trying to fix our past mistakes and making our relationship work. Well for my surprise his babymomma and my boyfriend have beem arguing a lot over issues regarding their son , now mind me she has a boyfriend, their relationship was caused by her boyfriend and her and so he feels upset due to her dating this guy for 4 years. Now my boyfriend and his baby momma had been together 6 years you do the math.
Any way long story short we have been going through ruff patches ourselves with is time consumming. I only see him late nights right after he sees his son, and on fridays when they stay the weekend. Well at times we tells me he loves me and won't trade me for no one but then again he shows me differently. Well today he packed up his stuff and left me, telling me that he does not know what he wants and that he is sorry for hurting me because I am a good person, and he told me this crying. I love him sooo much don't get me wrong and yes it really hurted me that we broke up, but my thing is this if I am such a good person so why was it so easy for him to leave me. All I asked him to do during our relationship was stop texting his ex for stupid things, and to give me the respect. Deep down I had this gut feeling he is still hung up on his ex but then again I ignored it. Should I give him the space to figure out what he wants and let nature takes its course or should I just keep him and ignore what he has done to me. He told me he wants to be with me and that he is very sorry for doing this to me. But my question is this did he really love me or was I just a puppet. Please help me.
