My daughter has been seeing a man for several years now. She has broken up with him twice. The last time was in March 07. They were together for a month and in that month she lost her job bought two cars in her name and was harassed with broken windshields and phone calls by not only him but his family. He recently got out of jail for stealing. He was in there for six months. He had another girlfriend while in there and they were engaged to be married. After he got out he broke up with her. He found my daughter again on MySpace and started to edge his was back into her life.
For the past week she has been out with him every night until 3-4 in the morning. She is 21 and works a full time job. She has been at this job for a year and is in line for management. She has gotten a new car, credit has been corrected, and she is a much stronger person now. He is 25 just out of jail no job living God knows where. He is just looking for a meal ticket and knows she loves him and will be there for him.
I'm afraid for her safety. He threatened to kill her last year after she broke up with him. We took him to court and he was found guilty. She tried to commit suicide while she was with him last year. I don't know what to do. I have a son who is 15. I have to set an example for him. Also I'm not getting any sleep with her being out all night. She is not into drugs or drinking. She just has an addiction to him.
What are my options. Should I set a curfew and if she doesn't adhere to it tell her she has a certain amount of time to move out? Also should I tell her she can't come back? Her dad's family are tired of being used. My family tells me not to push her.
Thanks for the input