Problematic step daughter-stepfather relationship
Recently, my 15 year old daughter had her twin sister tell me that she was "in a relationship" with a girl they had both been hanging out with and that she is "bisexual." I and her stepfather are having a hard time dealing with this. There have been many lies told regarding how long this girl was at my house, kissing my daughter in my house, etc. So I have now cut off communication with this individual. Last night when my husband arrived home and was fixing his plate at dinner I asked if he wanted any of the au gratin potatoes and he said "yeah but nobody else has eaten any, what did y'all do put something in them?" One of my daughters responded,"Yeah, rat poison." I immediately turned around to see which one of them said it and wound up sending both of them to their room. But not before my husband responded,"Don't worry 'M' the feeling is mutual." ('M' is representative of one of the girls) He later told me to just keep them away from him that he didn't even want to eat with them, be in the same car with them etc. What do I do... this is making me crazy... I love him but come on... they are MY children and I won't choose but their disrespectful attitudes have to go!! Thanks, all and any advice is appreciated... maybe you can see something I don't.