Is this considered "contact"? What a joke!
The last time BF took our son for a visitation was May 13, 2006. On July 1, 2006, my son saw his BF for about 5 min with his grandma (they ran into BF at his work) Fast Forward: BF has had NO contact since then. He has not called, sent a card, nothing. On June 20, 2008 my son, husband, and I went out to eat after my son's baseball game. My husband was waiting up at the counter for the food, I was getting the drinks, and my son went to find a spot to sit. I looked over and saw BF talking to my son! I told my son to come over by me and he did. Come to find out, BF now works there. BF, maybe, talked to our son for one min. Is this really counted as contact? In about a year, we are going to try to have my husband adopt my son. This is why I need to know.
Yes, I was extremely ticked that he went up to our son without me present! BF didn't even try to talk to me. My son, honestly, does not even remember his father anymore. He knows what he looks like (by pictures at grandmas) but that is all. My son seeing his BF, didn't even phase him. We were getting up to leave from eating and my son says to my husband, "Come on dad, let's go." My husband is dad to my son now.