I think I might be pregnant. My boyfriend said he has never cummed in me and I believe him but I'm still really scared. Im only 14 years old and we have had sex qiet a bit. We are protected most of the time but not all the time. I am very scared and don't know what to do.
I had a shorter period then normal last period and this whole week I have been really tired during the day and having a stomach ache and a head ache and not liking certain foods. I don't know what to do. If anyone can help me.. please do so.

Why don't you take a pregnancy test to find out?

If you only have sex ONE time without protection there is a possibility of becoming pregnant. And just because he doesn't ejaculate inside of you, doesn't mean you can't get pregnant. The "pull out" method is not a 100% guarantee that you will not get pregnant.

If you're sexually active, have you ever considered birth control? Fourteen years old is a very young age to be having a baby. Using protection (condoms) is very important because there are SERIOUS diseases out there that you can contract.

I don't know where you live, but if you have a Dollar General or other dollar store, they usually have pregnancy tests in there for $1. You're not going to know unless you take the test.

Good luck.

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Originally Posted by imscared29

I think i might be pregnant. My boyfriend said he has never cummed in me and i believe him but im still really scared. Im only 14 years old and we have had sex qiet a bit. We are protected most of the time but not all the time. I am very scared and dont know what to do.
I had a shorter period then normal last period and this whole week i have been realy tired during the day and having a stomach ache and a head ache and not liking certain foods. I dont know what to do. if anyone can help me.. please do so.

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Oh honey, you really need to get to a Planned Parenthood or the doctor to have a test taken. If you've had unprotected OR protected sex, you COULD BE PREGNANT. Abstinence is the ONLY way that you might not be pregnant. You should always use a condom & birth control & spermicide. 3 ways of contraceptives are the best way to go.

Good luck, sweets.

It's time to get a pregnancy test, or go to the doctor. Talk to your parents, you shouldn't be going through this alone.

Do not leave birthcontrol up to the guy, he's not the one who has to carry the baby if you get pregnant.

Are you pregnant? I don't know, you'll have to take a test. Is it possible you are? Yes, ses=babies, even with protection there is no guarantee.

Bottom line, if you aren't ready to be a mom, then don't have sex.

Good luck.

... if I hear another 14 year old having sex and getting pregnant, I'm going to hurt someone.

Why are you having sex at 14?! I know the saying goes, "Don't have sex until you're physically/emotionally/mentally/financially ready to have a child" won't work... but... are you really ready to be "that girl" in high school with a kid?

Go pick up a pregnancy test (please don't get a dollar pregnancy test)... these are one of the few times you should splurge a little and get a legitimate test. They're about $15 - 20 at your local grocery store.

Go get a test. I'd tell you to stop having sex, but I know it won't work, so get some condoms. Use your head.

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Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny

Go pick up a pregnancy test (please don't get a dollar pregnancy test)

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Whynot? They are just as reliable as any other, or even better. I've known several women who used a $1 test from Dollar General and they were very accurate.

It may be harder for a 14yr old to splurge on a pregnant. Test . More than likely she doesn't work, so how else would she get the money?

I'm not saying that they will/won't work... but in times like these, it's just one of those things you don't "skimp" on. Fine, buy the store brand one... but a dollar one?

Plus, the OP said she uses protection most of the time and have sex regularly... which means they buy condoms regularly. A box of condoms run you about $12 - 15. She can afford the test.

This is the most important test she'll take in her life, and the only one she hopes to fail. You don't want a false positive with a dollar store test. You get what you pay for, so splurge on a test that's going to give you accurate results. Or go to your doctor or Planned parenthood.