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  • Jul 1, 2008, 06:21 PM
    ellie-maygann
    Pregnant, all the threads merged
    It stings and I'm bleeding when I go for a wee but I'm nt on my period:confused:
    What is it??
    Dose it mean I'm pregnant
    Please help me find an answer someone!!




    Me and my boyfriend have been togethere 7 mounths now:p but all we do is arguee what shall we do??


    **** This poster was posting a lot of various posts, some not seeming to agree with the others, I have merged all of them into one post, **FC




    Hiya I'm the same all the time its normal for use girls to be like this don't worrie its natural hope I've helped a little xx



    I'm scared I might be pregnant :(
    And I went to a party with my mates and they were all taking drug!
    And the next day my best mate said she had put speed in my drink :eek:
    What do I do now??



    I'm really confused what are the sings of being pregnant?



    Me and my partener want a baby but I darnt tell him I don't think I can have them how do I no if I can and what do I do??
  • Jul 1, 2008, 06:53 PM
    J_9
    Speen? Never heard of it.

    If you are pregnant you need to see your doctor ASAP. Drugs and the pregnancy don't mix.
  • Jul 1, 2008, 06:54 PM
    J_9
    You could have a bladder infection or an STI, please make an appointment with your doctor.
  • Jul 1, 2008, 06:55 PM
    J_9
    The first sign is a missed period.
  • Jul 1, 2008, 06:58 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Stop hanging out with those type of people, people who put drugs in your drinks are not friends, they are low lifes. You seroiusly need to take a look at your lifestyle and think is this where and how I want to live.

    Talk with your doctor on any possible effects
  • Jul 1, 2008, 07:00 PM
    smokedetector
    1) Stop doing drugs
    2) Find out if you're actually pregnant
    3) If you are pregnant, go to the doctor (might have to do this to determine pregnancy anyway) and do prenatal visits
    4) no drinking, drugs, unprotected sex (so you don't get STDs, not so you don't get pregnant)
    5) Take care of the baby, or put him/her up for adoption if you can't

    Best of luck
  • Jul 1, 2008, 07:00 PM
    Alty
    Sex, then a missed period, possibly nausea, weight gain, etc. etc.

    Have you missed a period, have you had sex? Have you taken a pregnancy test?

    Every women is different, there are not set rules that say, if you experience this, this, and that, then you are pregnant. The only way to know for sure is a pregnancy test, either one bought at the store or a blood test at your doctors office.

    Good luck.
  • Jul 1, 2008, 07:00 PM
    smokedetector
    J_9

    I think she meant speed?
  • Jul 1, 2008, 07:02 PM
    J_9
    The drinking and drugs can cause a missed period too. Please get some medical attention to find out if you are pregnant.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...nt-232916.html
  • Jul 1, 2008, 07:06 PM
    J_9
    You really need to take a pregnancy test. Have you yet? It is NOT normal for every gal to have periods like this. You could be pregnant, you may not. It is impossible to tell via the internet and your symptoms alone. A blood test may be in order.
  • Jul 1, 2008, 07:08 PM
    Michelle4452
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ellie-maygann
    me and my boyfriend have been togethere 7 mounths now:p but all we do is arguee what shall we do ???

    Out of the 7 months that you all have been together, how long have you all been arguing?
  • Jul 1, 2008, 07:13 PM
    smokedetector
    My friend had that and had a UTI (dunno if that counts as an STI, because she's had them before ever having sex)... but go to the Dr. like J_9 said
  • Jul 1, 2008, 07:28 PM
    J_9
    I thought you thought you were already pregnant?

    What gives?

    At 16 you are WAY too young to have a child. Why do you think you need to have a baby?
  • Jul 1, 2008, 07:42 PM
    Ash123
    The simplest way to stop the arguing is to break up.

    (and I'm not kidding)

    If you've been together for 7 months and all you do is argue - clearly you are not a good match and do not have a foundation to grow on. Sometimes a relationship is too much work, and even if you are both attracted to each other physically - mentally it's not there.
    And ultimately that is more important - unless you never plan to get out of bed.

    I could ask you a lot of questions about your lives and him and you, but I am guessing you sense it's not right.
  • Jul 1, 2008, 07:43 PM
    starbuck8
    Okay! You have thought you were pregnant before. You have only been with your boyfriend for a very short period, and you are only 16. You have put yourself in situations where someone had the opportunity to drug your drinks. You were drinking, even though you were curious to know if you were pregnant.

    Get an education, learn about your body, and stop trying to get pregnant! At your age, you may think you know everything there is to know, but from what I've read, you do not have the capacity, or the means to raise a baby. Please don't make an innocent baby pay for this.

    Enjoy your childhood, and don't bring another baby into this world by someone who is not yet capable of raising it in a way that is mentally, emotionally, or financially equipt, and stable enough to do so.

    I urge you to listen to the advice given on this thread.
  • Jul 1, 2008, 07:52 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    And why do you think you cannot get pregnant, have you been checked by your doctor and he has told you the medical reason why ?
  • Jul 1, 2008, 11:38 PM
    Alty
    OP, you need help. You need to deal with allot of issue, and grow up, before you even consider bringing and innocent human life in to this world.

    You are a child, and you act like a child, you make mistakes, like a child, you should not have a child. I can't say it any clearer than that.

    You are 16, go out, have fun, make mistakes, learn, and grow up. Find a great guy, get a job, get your own place, get married, and then have a child. Really, being a parent isn't easy, it's not all gits and shiggles, trust me. Wait, you have nothing to lose and so much to gain.

    Good luck.
  • Jul 2, 2008, 12:29 AM
    sherrykfun
    Worry about pregnancy AFTER the sexual encounter?? Worried? Should be. See a doctor to test for STD's.. good luck Honey! :confused:

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