I was with him 7 years ago and there is their between us that we will married after his father give us the agrement but hi father didn't give his agree and I felt so bad about this between and I tell him that I cannot continue with this and he keep silents so I breakup with him because he never realized broking up and I try to disparately to not waiting him but I keep acounts the dey we broking up and imagine that after 5 months he will come back to me with his desation how can live without hope that he will come back :confused:

How old are you?
What country do you live in?
Are you saying you broke up 7 years ago or 5 months ago?
Are you saying you want to get back or you do not want to?

After 7 years I don't see much hope in waiting for him

I'm 27 years old and I'm from kuwait also we brokeup 2 weeks ago and I don't want to think about him

At your age even in your country I have a feeling if his dad did not give his consent he may never give his consent. If you do not want him back can you get involved with something else or maybe even somebody else to take your mind off him?

Yea I a gree with u but it's still to hard for me to move on with my life

I answer this with a shameful lack of knowledge to you culture so I apologise if I am suggesting the ridiculous. But quite basically the best way to move on is too keep busy. Be out with friends, occupy your time during the day and evenings and do things that build up yourself esteem. I don't recommend random dating at the best of times and I wouldn't recommend it here but at least chatting to members of the opposite sex, even plutonic ( not flirting) will help you recover yourself esteem.

Best wishes

S

Building a life that you enjoy with people you love, and fun activities, along with time, and patience is what you need. May hurt now but just love who you are and things will get better. I guarantee it!