How can I get my record sponged or sealed ,so a job and a places to stay

Go to the court where you got the record and ask them if you are eligible for expunge/seal
They can tell you what you need to do if you happen to be eligible.

Requirements often include:

* Fulfilling a waiting period between the incident and expungement;
* Having no intervening incidents;
* The number of prior incidents;
* The seriousness or type of offense involved in the incident;
* Fulling the terms of any sentence;
* Not having any pending criminal investigation or proceedings;
* That the incident was disposed without a conviction; and
* That the petitioner complete probation without any incidents