I made a huge mistake, I cheated on my girlfriend and I hurt her.
As stated before I messed up horribly. I just graduated from High school but not long before that my girlfriend dumped me after 13 months and 24 days together because she found out I cheated on her 6 months ago. What happened was I dated her for awhile and she was so damn near perfect to me. She was valedictorian at my school and of all guys she decides to like, she liked me (lukiest guy in the world). She was the best thing that happned to me, we were happy and we had fun together, thing is she didn't want to have sex.I was completely OK with that I loved her (still do) and it wasn't a problem for awhile. Until I started having urges and I didn't know what to do with them. She mentioned before if I ever came to her about that she would break up with me. So I went to my ex who is raging hoe, and a poser as a good friend ( I didn't competly get that at the time). When I asked her what I should do she said the ONLY way to get rid of them is to take care of them. I didn't want believe her but I was so close to asking my girlfriend I though I didn't have a choice. So I did with my ex and I didn't enjoy it, I just thought I did what I had to do to keep my relationship. And my ex's best friend decides to tell me she liked me (cuz I liked her b4) and one time we kissed following my ex's advice. I felt so guilty about it I wanted to tell her but I was so afraid she would get hurt I didn't tell her. 6 months of happness later the girl I kissed all of a sudden got a concience and told my girlfriend. She dumped me the next day and the day after that maybe I should have kept my mouth shut but I admitted I cheated on her. I didn't want to hurt her, it was a mistake that didn't happen again, but I'm afraid no matter how many times I tell her that she may never understand that because she's hurt (and she has every right to be).
So of coarse she got hurt and as forgivng as she is, she's not sure if she can forgive me. I feel like the scum of the earth right now. Is been about 3 weeks since this happened and she wants to still be friends (cuz we were like best friens before she decided to like me) but its hard for her. All my friends hate me now and so do her parents. I hate myself for hurting her. I learned a lot, especially that my "urges" were a state of mind that I could have controlled. She loves wrting poetry on Facebook so I found out she missed me still in one of her poems(but on this site I learned she doesn't miss me she misses the good times, and all the people said move on from him an find someone better). I thought she might give me a second chance because it made sense to me, we had such a good relationship and it got ruined because of a mistake, so logically maybe she woud think about it. Until I read another poem which said she can't love me anymore. I don't expect her to forgive me, I'm not looking for it, but I don't know what to do. So now that I'm slowly becoming emo(lol), What do I do, I want to help her but I can't because I'm the reason she's hurt, I want to make it up to her but I think there's no way I can do that. IDK what to do now, I learned my lessons, I don't want to date anymore because I'm told ill screw up worse then this so don't tell me find another girlfriend, Ill never find anyone else like her anyway (brians, beauty, and an inidvidual pesonality all up there). I cut all ties with my ex and her friend (who seriusly set me up). And I feel like scum everyday because I know I hurt someone I love. I apologize a million times when I get the chance to talk to her.
So knowing she may never forgive me and would never take me back. What do I do now, am I suppose to spend the rest of my days feeling like this with no hope of me ever being able to fix this? What ecactly is she going through? And is there anyway I can fix this? And does what I did make me a horrible person or a guy who made a huge mistake? I know this was long and I'm sorry but please I NEED help. (btw ladies out there, feel free to curse me out, I don't know anymore I desreve it).