Recently my Ex and I have been talking, multiple times a day, and plenty of texting. We are getting along WONDERFULLY. She keeps telling me how her current boyfriend is not very nice, and she does not see them lasting much longer. And we are kind of talking about getting back together maybe sometime after they break up. Does anyone know if I should just keep playing it cool, and let her call and text me first, and just not get to excited about things that are happening and just let everything play out? Or should I be more assertive and ask for things to happen. I believe that things are going to work out in the end, but it just might take a while. Thank you for your help guys, all of the break-up advice and NC advice has done wonders. Thanks Again!
Nathan

Dude.. I wouldn't want to be the fall back guy.

Please be careful, if she can actually sit there and talk to you about getting back together after leaving this guy, then what can she do to you? She is not even trying to make it work, she is useless, go and find someone who is really worth something.

Honestly wait things out because you never know she might just be using you as a rebound so just play things cool, most likely when she and her boyfriend break up shell come crying to you and probably want affection from you, this depends on you if you give her the attention needs and wants. Honestly I think you deserve someone that wants you just as much as you want them, so mabye just wait things out. Hope everything works out
**LD**

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Thank you for your help guys, all of the break-up advice and NC advice has done wonders. Thanks Again!

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Don't think for a minute our advice has you sitting under this female, and being spoon fed false hope, and waiting for her to take you back. That's entirely your doing.