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  • Jun 28, 2008, 06:05 AM
    sameer20007
    She is not talking to me
    I have a girl friend but few days before when I got bored by her I diverted her calls to my another female friend and since then she is not talking to me I just don't know what to do and how to make her talk to me again I tried a lot on her cell but she is not responding.:(
  • Jun 28, 2008, 06:54 AM
    N0help4u
    You got bored with her so why do you want to talk to her again?
    You can't just turn people that are supposedly your girlfriend off and on according to your moods.
    She has moods and feelings too. If you get bored with her maybe you are better off without her. I think I could possibly be upset too if I called my boyfriend and some girl answered.
  • Jun 28, 2008, 07:05 AM
    kp2171
    As mentioned, you cannot make her do anything she doesn't want to do.

    You can be sorry. You can apologize. You can think about how to treat another person differently in the future. You can wait it out, keep trying, and see how she responds.

    Unfortunately, being sorry and even a changed person doesn't make her accept anything. That's the thing about a sincere apology... you don't give it demanding anything in return.

    So... you can make the effort. Go see her. Take the noise shell throw at you most likely.

    So you were bored by her... what's up with that? Are you spending too much time together? How often do you see each other or talk or text? Your actions of diverting calls was a dumb move... but if you are feeling smothered by constantly being in touch, it happens and its reasonable. People need personal space, time for friends, time alone, etc. sometimes when starting to date people get so wrapped up in the relationship that there's nothing else but that. You aren't her girlfriend. You don't need to chat on the phone hours on end. Half the fun of a new relationship is the mystery... and being with her all the time, if that's the case, might be taking away from that. I'm married, but I have friends I see, as does my wife. Being around other people gives you a broad support base, more experiences...

    But if the issue is you felt smothered, you need to talk it out, not sidestep your responsibility.
  • Jun 28, 2008, 07:07 AM
    talaniman
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ge-231328.html

    This the one you think is your g/f??


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    ... how to make her talk to me again I tried a lot on her cell but she is not responding.:(
    I think your getting your just dessert.
  • Jun 28, 2008, 07:14 AM
    N0help4u
    Ahhh the one that actually left him for someone else??
    Can't keep up with all these post(er)s
  • Jun 28, 2008, 07:27 AM
    kp2171
    Dear Lord I give up on this one.

    Thanks for the heads up tal.
  • Jun 28, 2008, 09:24 PM
    sameer20007
    Thank u for your replies, these will diffinatly help me out
  • Jun 28, 2008, 09:38 PM
    SkAtErGuRl43
    Okay first of all she saw that you weren't talking to her so she is obviously going to do the same to u!! So give her sometime and you were basically cheating on her!!

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