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Just like a ghost

What should I do?
I feel like I'm getting left in the dark. I sit wif this group at school once I thought they were my friends but now I'm not so sure. Every break I would sit wif this group but lately no one would talk to me. They wouldn't even acknowled if I were even there. I've been having arguments with this chick in the group about some other (thats another story) and some reason I think it's that what has made everyone just take no notice that I'm even there. But no one hardly likes her either so I'm not sure. I want to leave to another group but there's no one else that would like me to sit with them its so fustrating. I feel so alone and its just not fair. I don't know what I did I'm always the last choice with every thing. For once I want to be the first choice and not the last I want to be there not just a ghost. Basically I want some real friends some that will like me for who I am and won't leave me in the dark about everything. I just don't know what to do to get some more friends all my options are gone.

For some reason it sounds like you got them upset for disagreeing with that girl.
Often even if somebody doesn't really like somebody they will side with them if they think they are right. Or maybe they feel you were too pushy with your argument.
Try talking to one of the kids that you feel closest to and ask what's up with the way they are treating you and what they think you can do to fix it.

visit a friend. Bring him/her some breakfast and go to school together. One of the nice things you can do to other people. Peace!

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

For some reason it sounds like you got them upset for disagreeing with that girl.
Often even if somebody doesn't really like somebody they will side with them if they think they are right. Or maybe they feel you were too pushy with your argument.
Try talking to one of the kids that you feel closest to and ask what's up with the way they are treating you and what they think you can do to fix it.

Hey no help. It's you again. Hahaha.

And yes blue, you're going to have to talk to someone. Make peace with the chick. Agree to disagree if you can.

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Originally Posted by lengkyx

hey no help. it's you again. hahaha.

and yes blue, you're gonna have to talk to someone. make peace with the chick. agree to disagree if you can.

I try to make peace with this chick but she just keeps going on and on she keeps bringing other people into it. This argument has been going on for half a year now and I just can't take it anymore. She keeps blaming me for what has happened. And I know myself I hvaent steped out of line once

Some say, "kids will be kids." I think that their behavior is so brainless, they should be reprimanded by an adult. Since being alone is painful, sometimes unspeakably so, maybe it is better to just stay alone alone. I mean that it may be better to not try and hang out with them.

You will run into similar situations with this type of people all through life. Remind yourself that being treated like a ghost is a sign that you are surrounded by cliques and the stupidity of a herd of cows that feed on gossip.

The good news is, you are learning from the situation. Also, all around you are others that are left out too. Form your own group!

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Originally Posted by blue lil emo me

i try to make peace with this chick but she just keeps going on and on she keeps bringing other people into it.

With "bringing other people into it", you mean she would reason out and mention other people's names who don't seem to have anything to do with whatever the argument is about?

If I got it right it's possible she's still very affected about what happened. Or may be she feels guilty and she's simply masking that with hatred. Try to give it time. You will find some other people you can hang out with.

Thanks guys this has helped heaps
If any one else wants to help out feel free to tell me what you think I should do