Originally Posted by JBeaucaire
She's trying to figure out who she is through all of the turmoil and change, she's lost her way and you'll pay a price for it during this period.
I know it's hard, but I would suggest you encourage her in the ways and things she's doing to get back out there risk a little...streaks in her hair and all...just don't participate too willingly in her leaving you behind. Join in. Stay at her side and be a light and a counsel.
Maybe you should grow that goatee or work on your abs, too, show her you're open to change as well.
Tough times, keep us updated. This will take a while.