my father gave away my car!
in 1997, I bought a 1993 toyota celica in great condition from a dealer.
I used the car during college, and then in 2001 I moved abroad to study for a year. The car remained in the large driveway of my parents' house.
I moved back to my parents' house in New York for a year afterwards, and then I moved back to italy to join my italian boyfriend. Because I wasn't sure if the relationship - or the move for that matter - would be permanent or not, I did not sell the car.
it has remained in my parents' driveway since July of 2003. I have gone back to visit numerous times, and they have visited me here. I have not been able to drive the car during my visits because I did not keep it insured while I've been abroad.
in the last couple of years, my parents divorced and my father got remarried. He is buying out my mother's portion of the house where the car has been parked.
on my last trip home, I found out that my step-mother (who lives in the house with my father) doesn't want to see the car in the driveway. I told my father and my step-mother very clearly, and several times, that they were welcome to sell it then. Of course, the money would be mine, but I would give a fair portion of it to my father for helping me to sell it.
I have since discovered that he gave the car away - for free - to his housekeeper. He did not make any attempt to sell it at anytime.
I looked up the blue book value of the car (for private buyers/private sellers), and it says it was worth between $4,000 and $5,000.
I brought this to my father's attention, and he said that he's not going to give me a penny because the car was a piece of crap. I think that's his opinion, but I don't see how that pairs up with the blue book value or what is owed to me.
my father is wealthy. I'm young and not full of cash.
what are the rules in this situation? What should I be doing?