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Help Me Please Confused

Hey, I am a 16 yr old girl with a lot going on in her life, well it is mostly my relationship with this guy I'm with... does he love me ? Are we going to work? Or is it all just a waste of time? I love this man very much and I know he loves me we are just going through a rough patch, and I need to know if he is with me cu he loves me or because he feels bad, and is just giving support? I believe we are right for each other but they way things are going... is it just a few bumps on the road or did I hit dead end?> please help... sam

Honestly, you can not rely on phychics for this answer. For one thing you asking this question tells me that you are having a lot of doubts. You need to figure things out for yourself and do what is best in your own life. For Peace and Happiness. We all have different paths to take in life and we all have OUR OWN DECISIONS in life to make. Even with all the advice you have received, even with the many different opinions, it is you and you alone that need to make the final decision.

Joe

I know! Its just so hard to do! I'm just so confused wit my life at the moment, so depressed! I hope things pull through in the end, something has got to happen I just got to take the risk in finding out. Thank you

Your Welcome, and remember. No matter what experience you go through, we are all here to learn through experiances. It may be very hard at times but there is always a positive that comes out of it. It is all in the out look of life.

Hi, sam,
I am not a Psychic, don't pretend to be.
At 16 years old, you will have many changes in your life; cause you have a lot of years ahead.
We don't always know what will happen. All you can do is Smile, keep going, and hope for the best.
Talk with him honestly and if he doesn't tell you what you want to hear, then start making new friends. There is someone out there for you, with respect, caring, love, and wants to be just with you. I do wish you the best, and good luck.

I know the feeling just take it easy and give him some space to grow you are still young don't move to fast before you give your love away make sure he is worth your heart I know that you love him just keep trying then if it doesn't get better just know that god has something better for you best wishes for you.

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Originally Posted by lpool

i know the feeling just take it easy and give him some space to grow you are still young don't move to fast before you give your love away make sure he is worth your heart i know that you love him just keep trying then if it doesn't get better just know that god has something better for you best wishes for you.

Thank you, I know, if things don't work it is for a reason! :)

Sweetheart, you are 16. Do you know how many men will come and go in your life before you truly fall in love? It is so hard at your age because your heart is overflowing with love. It is intense, powerful, raw and careless love. It has no direction, no focus, no laws, no references. Today you will feel like this boy is "the one". Next year you will laugh when you are in the arms of another thinking back on this. My advice is to love him with everything you have and if it ends in tragedy, love the pain and remember it. When you do meet your soulmate you need the pain to remember why you are here. To remember the long journey you walked to get there. Enjoy your young life, date many, love often and be happy! Your emotions will not be a roller coaster when you hit your 20's. Your mind and heart will steady out at 25 and by 30, you will know yourself. That is if you do not marry young and settle for anything less than true love. Date a man for a year before you say you will move in. Date another year before you say yes to a proposal and date another year before you say I do. 3 years will test love to its limits and show you the real men from the cowards.
This comes from a woman who has dated over 150 men, 25 women and is in her 2nd marriage. And this time, I got it right after so many. Sometimes it takes a million to find the one.

Hypatia

Thank you greeat advice but I do think he is the one for me. We have been together for a year now, longest relatinship for me, pretty much! And we do live together most the time! I love him and he loves me, I'm a lot happier now and we have worked our problems out! Thank you anywayz :)

Hi, Sam,
I am so happy to hear that you have worked out your problems!!
That doesn't happen everyday!
Best of luck.

Hi Many would say you are quite young to have this feeling... It is easier said than done! The feeling of love when hits you, age is immaterial... That's exactly what has happened to you... But be brave... If you follow your instincts, everything will be OK... Goodluck!:)

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i know! its just so hard to do! im just so confused wit my life at the moment, so depressed! i hope things pull thru in the end, something has got to happen i just gotta take the risk in finding out. thank you

You have got to be strong. We all go through this. We all have a stage in our life where we start to question ourselves, where our lives are going? What we want to do?

I would take step back from it all, give yourself a break and try to relax and clear your head so you are thinking clearly. Only then will it all become clear.

Good luck xx

Thank you! Very very much! I've been so busy with work I don't think I have had time to have a problem haha :)